@angiede2001, I want to send my love and prayers to you and to your husband.

I was once 'where' your husband is at now, and my husband was at my side. The comfort of his love and his presence meant everything to me. Although it can be difficult to put into words, and he may not voice it, I want you to know that your love, presence and support are the best medicine for your dear husband right now.
I wish for you and him to enjoy a Blessed Christmas.
Rosemary