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My wife is furious at me 3 weeks post RARP
Prostate Cancer | Last Active: Nov 30, 2025 | Replies (66)Comment receiving replies
This is deeply personal and I probably should not have posted it, but thank you for all the replies. I don't know how to delete this post or I would. I am going to go see a counselor which I have never done before, so know that you helped me out! I am going to mute this discussion from further comments and I apologize if I've caused anyone to get upset.
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Well, I for one am really glad you shared this with us, and hope that some of the wide-ranging responses have been helpful.
For some context, I just want to mention that @surftohealth88, who had quite a strong reaction, and who is a regular presence that I greatly admire, has shown herself to be an over-the-top supporter and helper of her husband, which might explain some the vehemence in her response.
My own wife has been helpful and supportive, if a little laissez-faire, which was okay by me. People do react in different ways to stressful situations.
You sound like a great guy (and I loved the "can't wait to poke her in the eye with it" line), and I hope you can resolve this situation for the better, so best of luck!