@thmssllvn
As a woman, I can assure you that being menopausal does not cause woman to become abusive nor "sadistic" (as her husband described her), nor was this out of her character since they had "other rough patches" (as her husband indicated). The loss of erections is the least of their problems, unfortunately, and only a serious and long counseling can possibly help (but I am not holding my breath for her ). I am often astounded with what some men and women put up with and are finding excuses for inexcusable : ((( . I am very giving and loving person but at the same time nobody walks over me or mistreats me - oh boy, God help them if they try lol.