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My wife is furious at me 3 weeks post RARP

Prostate Cancer | Last Active: Nov 30, 2025 | Replies (66)

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I would try viewing her reaction for the time being as the sound of her pain. It has been said anger is a byproduct of fear. Not sure what to say about her ignoring your post tx emotional state. There are alternate methods of bringing an orgasmic smile to her face. Perhaps time to dive in and offer her a demonstration.

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Chippy, with all due respect, anger as a feeling can be part of grief process for some people, but when it is directed toward others it is inexcusable.

When it is directed toward person who is suffering and is seriously ill than it is absolutely abusive behavior.

It is time for her to understand that other people do not exist around her to fulfill her needs exclusively - it is the biggest red flag for narcissistic disorder and unfortunately not "changeable". BTW - she is not a preteen that needs to be "demonstrated" how to reach orgasm *sigh, can do it by herself BTW (????). The poor man is still recovering after surgery - now has to "put smile on her face" while she is lashing at him and accusing HIM of selfishness for saving his own life from cancer and while he is still in both physical and emotional pain ?