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Experiences with neobladder surgery for bladder cancer
Bladder Cancer | Last Active: Nov 19, 2025 | Replies (30)Comment receiving replies
@daddyroxx2025
It is scary. It's completely normal to have all of those thoughts running through your head. All the "what ifs."
I did not have a partner as I went through it either. My siblings were a huge help along with my friends. All you can do is take one day at a time. It can feel overwhelming but if you just concentrate on today and tomorrow, I think it makes it a little easier to tackle. You are stronger than you think you are. I will say a prayer for you tonight.
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@jowilliams1
Thank You for Responding, I am Devestated by all of this....
After Mondays Second Surgery and if the Surgeon has Discovered it has Spread,...I have Decided to Walk Away From all of this,..I cannot Comprehend having a Bladder and Prostate Removed and Living with this New Way to Live...Its to much, and I have Decided, I Can't and Don't Wanna Live this Way...I'm Sure theres Others that Adapted, and Live a Life that Somewhat is Normal, but with Changes..I Respect all of this....At 62, and Single and by Myself Completely...I dont have that kind of Help with this New Way to Live...and I am Ready to Walk Away from this Cancer Life and Leave this Life....I will Carry on till I cant...and That will be that...I am Sad, but Ready and Willing to Walk Away....
Thank You for your Time and Good Luck....🤗