Abby, I read the frustration in your story, and I understand, since I too have an ex. However, my advice to you is, let it go. There is no right or wrong answer here. You can't "win", and it's OK. There is no reason to be "right". You can decide that you're right, and then let it go. Holding onto something like this for so long keeps you connected to your ex in an unhealthy way I believe. I found that when I was no longer concerned about anything to do with my ex, my life got better and I was happier. He will never admit or even notice that you are right about this, and even if he did, what difference would it really make in your life? Let it go and be happy with your life. Warmly, Gail B