@jmhabo I had radical prostatectomy 4 months ago in July (Gleason 3+4) and am recovering slowly but def getting better and so glad I chose to be aggressive. The first few months were frustrating with incontinence, def no erections. It's gotten much better, I can control my bladder most of the time with 1 pad that is usually dry each night (it wasn't that way at first). Not meaning to share TMI and I don't have full erections yet but have improving sensitivity on penis which allows improving erection with help of penis pump and orgasm (suprisingly from muscles around and below where prostate was. My body is healing itself and it may take a year to get back to where I was and want to be, but it will happen.... Like you best news was that cancer had not spread outside the prostate. Urology Oncologist says the pathology numbers are very encouraging and suggest they got all of it . I can handle and accept whatever I have to during this slow recovery. Don't form an opinion until at least 4 months....I'm much, much better after 4 mos than where I was after one month.....Your body uses A LOT of energy restoring itself and you WILL be tired.....It gets better...give yourself permission to let your body recover at it's own pace......It will get better I assure you!