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Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Aug 6 8:12am | Replies (335)

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@lisalucier

@guener - I was just thinking yesterday about how my brain went quickly from my husband and son coming back from the hardware store about an hour after I expected (and no response to my text) Saturday to them having been in a car accident and died. I was imagining whom I'd call, the police coming by to tell me, what I'd do with my life, etc. How in the world did I jump to that? I did this quite a bit when my husband and I were first married 15 years ago: if he was coming home later from work than I expected, I imagined something terrible had happened to him.

I see now that this is catastrophizing. I don't do this with everything, but something happening to my husband is one that comes up from time to time. Perhaps I'm not the only one who does this kind of thing?

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@lisalucier I'm guilty of doing the same thing. I tend to latch onto a thought and spend the next hour or so having it on a continuous spool. I do it with a brief statement and it's really hard to stop it. If I'm driving, the words play and replay and replay, usually in a rhythm, sometimes related to a rhythm the road or the car is making. It's a somewhat mild type of OCD. Art Linkletter said, kids say the darndest things. So does my brain.

Hi, @lisalucier and others,

While catastrophizing has not been a problem for me for many years, I think that many of the suggestions offered could be very helpful for anyone who is experiencing this type of anxiety problem. While I'm not a psychologist I do think that @georgette12's ideas about PTSD could be very true. Just wondering what sort of traumas in the past could provoke this type of thinking?

What @johnhans and @jimhd said about stopping the loop sounded helpful.

I found some links to articles that might shed some light on this type of thought disorder, perhaps they will be helpful.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/turning-straw-gold/201711/how-put-stop-catastrophic-thinking
https://www.healthline.com/health/anxiety/catastrophizing
I'm wondering who else might be able to offer suggestions for stopping this type of thinking?