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@mil63 , Knowing that you have a second opinion that agrees with the treatment is reassuring. I'm sure you want the best for your husband, that's obvious. Sometimes that may mean leaving another treatment that is known to be effective as a future step. Possibly, it's that the doctors want to 'save' that treatment for later. Knowing that there is another treatment available down the road is reassuring. As stage IV patients, we depend on knowing that there are options available, options that are proven to be successful, when our current treatments fail. That gives me hope. It makes it easier to go in for surveillance scans. I know when (not if) my cancer progresses, I have another treatment lined up and ready to go. We never want to be out of options. It's a difficult discussion, but it may be helpful to talk with his oncologist about this too.
I know his diagnosis is a lot to process and take in. Your head is likely spinning, and that's expected. You're trying to do your best to support him, and that's what great care partners do! He's fortunate to have you by his side. At his next appointment, can you ask about the order of treatments?