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Need advice about attending a wedding

Transplants | Last Active: Oct 27, 2025 | Replies (16)

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Hi. I had my liver transplant 18 months ago. Last month flew from Denver to Chicago for a big family wedding. Good advice all from cromme50. My only adds are for the handshake I always offer a fist pump instead. And then go ahead and share about the transplant if it seemed uncomfortable to the person (which was rare). It brought out a number of really nice conversations with the folks who really seemed to care. A few months back after my 1st year call with Mayo I specifically confirmed if the buffet rule is still in effect and was for life. I knew it was but wishful thinking. Mayo was a little concerned that I would even think such a thing and reconfirmed no buffets is for life. My wife (who is not shy) will clear with the hosts first and then go to the folks preparing the food to have a plate made for me before it is put out to the public. Always is fine with the hosts and worked. Either that or just skip the eating and enjoy the conversation at the table. Again sharing my not eating was due to the transplant. Again sharing that got 100% well wishes and was actually a good conversation starter among the folks we did not know. Enjoy the wedding ! Congrats on 15 months !!

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@craigcraig Thanks for the advice. I really like the idea of having a plate prepared before they put out the buffet. I just may try that.