Struggling with making an osteoporosis treatment decision
I am just struggling to make a decision about my treatment. I had my first bone density test and found I have osteoporosis. I have a couple of -3.2 vertebrae. My hip bones less problematic. I'm 60, active and fit. I've seen an endocrinologist and a rheumatologist who were both highly recommended. Both said "Evenity" before I barely sat down. But there is so little known about Evenity, and nothing known about its long term effectiveness or risk. I've read heart breaking posts from women who were advised to take Prolia with the same assurance and then had multiple debilitating fractures because so little was known/admitted about rebound risk. I am tearful and anxious and sleepless. I've been so healthy my body has carried me through so much life and adventure. I just don't know what to do , whether I'm putting me/my body at risk. Both doctors are paid consultants for Amgen. I feel hopeless and distressed. One of the doctors, although I said I wanted to consider my options, went ahead and got pre authorization for Evenity from my insurance "to show me how easy it would be". I feel cornered. My general doctor also has concerns about me being put on a relatively unknown drug when I haven't tried something like Forteo with a long track record.
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@sunnyflower
Wow. Just happened onto your post, my first time in this group. Now I get it!
It's October 8, 2025. I've just gotten off the phone with Evenity. The woman was rather stiff answering my questions.
How long on the market? Since 2019. Where can I read the study mentioned in your literature; when was the study; who conducted the study; any other information? She said she had to refer me back to my prescriber. For. every. question.
Very disappointing. Very frustrating.
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A pharmaceutical company develops a drug with testing along the route to ensure it is accomplishing what it is intended to do. Then much more extensive testing (clinical trials) is needed to get the drug approved for marketing. Who do you think is going to pay for all this testing? Some fairy godmother? Hopefully the testing protocol and results are reviewed by an independent party.
@lbroomayo1 Thanks so much for sharing your experience with estrogen use. I’m especially curious how it’s been for your bones - after seven years, have you noticed any improvement in bone density or overall bone stability? And if you don’t mind me asking, what form and dose of estrogen are you using?
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3 Reactions@anewyorker did you get any side effects from Tymlos as that’s what my rheumatologist wants me to have but I’m terrified.
I don't mind you asking. I do use a corsett; Maidenform Waist Clincher found on Maidenform.com. The corsett has metal supports and shapes my waist and torso. But more importantly, it shapes, supports, and holds my spine. With the estrogen, the time I wear the corsett has been reduced. I wear it mostly in my house, or with certain clothing that is waist defining.
I have excellent bones and density. When my orthopedic providers show me the Xrays, I'm shocked. It doesn't look like the Xray of a 69 year-old-woman. I started using estrogen and progesterone at age 62. However, my bone marrow is not nearly as healthy. I have full blown anemia in knees and hip joints and I use leg warmers (dancers' muscle warmers) and it alleviates 100% joint stiffness, pain, and discomfort. I also wear men's or boy's thermal underwear under my sleepwear all year-round while sleeping. This keeps my hips and knees warm and blood circulation working well. I am working with providers to improve bone marrow and liver function.
Remember that if you use pure estrogen you have to balance with progesterone. I cycle my use of hormones, similar to birth controll pills. You could start monthly bleeding cycle, if you are post menepausal or if your reproductive organs are not atrophic. I test for ovarian cancer and bone cancer using a simple blood test Ca 125, which tests for cancer antigens, and Ionized calcium blood test, which mearsure calcium in the blood and is known to be a predictor of bone cancer. Both tests use reference range to identify evidence of cancer.
My last warning is, there is only one company that manufactures pure estrogen here in the US and Canada. Don't be fooled with knockoffs or other products. It can be lethal after taking pure estrogen for two or more years. There is no replacement one you start this regime. I started with the smallest dose and then gradually use the middle dosage amount for the last six years. Best regards.
Wilma Lynn Buie (formerly, Lynn B. Brooks), MS EdD, LPCA Candidate, NBCC examined, Associate Degree Nursing Education, PBT ASCP Certified, ASCP Board examined
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2 Reactions@mandie4712 It bothers me so much when I hear that people are terrified by a med like Tymlos. My experience has been so benign overall. When I started taking it in January 2024, I experienced occasional mild nausea that started soon after the shot and that lasted up to two hours and also very occasional rapid heartbeat for a few seconds (I have a mild arrhythmia called superventricular tachycardia, which means my heart sometimes has run of six or seven rapid beats. It's only occasional and for all I know these weren't caused by the Tymlos, but it is a listed side effect, so take it for what it's worth). Anyway, I changed the time of day I take the shot (from early evening to bedtime), and both side effects promptly vanished.
What happened with me may have exactly no relevance to what will be your experience. But I have absolutely no side effects from Tymlos now, and have had none for most of the time I"ve been on it. I know other people have had a very different experience. But you can regulate the dose and start slow and work up, which has helped mitigate the side effects for some people.
In any case, all of the Tymlos you inject (or most of it, I'm not really sure which) is out of your system in something like an hour and half, which is one reason the side effects are so time limited. It's not like Reclast where you get a shot once a year and the med stays active in your system.
Talk to your doctor. But for me Tymlos has been wonderful. I don't love doing the shot, but it takes literally two minutes. In exchange for that, my spine improved from -3.3 to -2.6 last February, and I'm hoping it will be even better when I have my next DEXA scan, in February.
Tymlos seems to work best on the spine, so if your problem is, say, your hip, it might not be as effective for you. That's a question for your doctor.
Good luck. I was pretty stressed about starting Tymlos, but after a compression fracture I had no choice. I hope things work out well for you.
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Thank you for your post it’s really appreciated. I’m in the UK but here it’s a new injection so no real information about it here it’s called Abaloparatide injection but same thing. I was stupid and read reviews on an American site and that’s what put me off. I’m disabled can’t walk at all have to be lifted and I was told an hour after injection you desperately need a wee that worried me as I can’t get anywhere fast especially the commode. Plus back pain, palpations, one and joint pain, dizziness etc and as I can’t only just stand for 20 seconds I didn’t want to fall as I broke my neck of femur 5 years ago but it never recovered that’s why I’m disabled. I also have spinal fractures now as cannot hold back up straight anymore. My rheumatologist suggested this injection because of my femur and spine fractures plus my bone scan is not good so high risk of fractures again. I’ve heard lots of people take it at bedtime but once I’m in bed I’m stuck there until I’m lifted out and was worried about getting bad palpitations and nausea plus bladder weakness whilst stuck in bed. I didn’t realise the med only stayed in your system a short time which is good. The nurse is coming next week to discuss and do the injection but I’ve been having panic attacks about it. If I was able bodied I’d be more positive about the injections but as I’m stuck in a chair it concerned me a lot. To be honest I’m pretty useless can’t do anything for myself. I’m glad you got on well with this injection and I know I need to take it but the fear is awful as since breaking my femur I’ve lost all my confidence and scared of everything now as that fracture has destroyed my life.
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4 Reactions@mandie4712 I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. It's the fear of everyone on this board, I suspect, that bone breaks such as your femoral neck and vertebral fractures leave you so incapacitated. I do hope that good medical care can get you back on your feet.
Though I'm in no way comparing my situation to yours, I have a somewhat limited ability to walk because of orthopedic problems unrelated to osteoporosis but stemming from more garden-variety problems such as stenosis and arthritis, compounded by the aftereffects of a compression fracture at L1 that resulted from a trip and fall. I'm having a two-step medical procedure starting next week that my doctor hopes will reduce the pain and allow me to walk longer distances than I can now, which is limited to about 20 to 25 minutes before the pain gets in the way.
I hope the nurse gives you good information. Your anxiety and fears are totally understandable, and I hope things get better for you.
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3 ReactionsThanks so much for sharing all those details - it’s really interesting to hear how you’ve found what works for you. I appreciate you taking the time to explain your experience.
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Thanks unfortunately I will never walk again as my muscles never regained their strength after having rod and screws put into femur. My consultant was very arrogant as for 5 years I kept saying something isn’t right as couldn’t still can’t lift top of leg up of seat at all but he ignored me. I think I lost trust in him and lost confidence in everything. I don’t tolerate meds very well that’s why I’m concerned about the injections but I will give them a try. One person told me that the injections caused her to have a weak bladder and as I have to be lifted I’m not fast getting anywhere. If I was to do injections in bed I’m then bed bound so I was scared about wetting the bed if this side effect is true. I will speak to the nurse see what she says. Good luck with your procedure I hope it helps you so you can walk longer.
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