A Summary of My Multiple Myeloma
Diagnosis
I was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma on Sept 28, 2022 (age 53). My diagnosis was a result of visiting my general practitioner for the first time post-covid complaining of general fatigue (shortness of breath and high heart rate when exerting). I had been trying to get into hiking shape all summer and wasn't making my usual progress. Given headlines in the news I was self-diagnosing myself with long covid. My doctor suggested that we do a blood panel since it had been a while since we had done one. The panel came back with abnormalities including the fact that I was very anemic (thus the fatigue) and she suggested that she share the results with an oncologist colleague to get her input. The oncologist asked that I come in the following week (not a great sign). And before my visit, through the beauty of Google, using my blood work results, I had narrowed it down to either Multiple Myeloma or Lymphoma. I wouldn't recommend going that route as it's a lot to stew on by yourself… My biggest takeaway is that my gp deserves an award! I've since read many accounts of people who aren't diagnosed for months or even years. I got a jump on it due to her diligence!
Initial Treatment
I was treated at St Vincent (Providence) in Portland, OR from October - February which included weekly visits to get lenalidomide, dexamethasone, daratumumab and also took (oral) revlimid at home. Treatment was fairly well tolerated with my main symptom being brain fog and fatigue. Treatment was successful bringing my Myeloma numbers down significantly. At the time of diagnosis, I had a few small 'shadows' of bone deterioration on my vertebrae that disappeared after the initial treatment.
Autologous Transplant
I had my transplant at OHSU in Portland, OR on March 15th. The prep started on March 4th with self-injections of Zarxio to promote stem cell generation, on March 7th had the trifusion catheter placed in my chest, and then 5 hours of harvesting on March 8th (got enough for 2 transplants in one go). On March 14th I had the first of two chemo (Melphalin) infusions as an outpatient and then on March 15h I had the second dose and was admitted for 16 days.
My main side effects while in the hospital post-treatment were major nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Needless to say, my GI did not like Melphalin. I lost about 20 lbs and wasn't able to keep food down for weeks. I had sucked on popsicles while getting Melphalin and I didn't get mouth sores. The first few days in the hospital I experienced major anxiety while waiting for the chemo symptoms to arrive. I don't love hospitals and I think the isolation and anticipation of side effects all contributed to my severe reaction. This took me by surprise since up to this point I had been able to take the diagnosis and initial treatment in stride and be fairly optimistic. I credit family and friends who visited and kept me distracted (thank goodness for March Madness!) as well as the very thoughtful and capable staff at OHSU (and some good anxiety drugs) for helping me get through that experience.
Post Transplant
Home again! Nothing like that feeling… The first 30 days at home being immunocompromised meant that there was very little that I could do by myself but I was very lucky to have 3 caregivers who stayed with me for that time to share in cleaning, pet care, gardening, food prep along with monitoring my condition, taking me to appointments etc... They managed to share the load such that they were able to keep a fairly normal remote work schedule as well as care for me and keep the house running. Part of taking care of the caregivers included having another friend volunteer to coordinate a Meal Train to deliver food periodically for them while they prepared my food under strict guidelines. I didn't have any particular complications with recovery. My appetite was very slow to return. My GI took months to recover and my sense of taste is still a bit affected four months later. My brain fog has continued to improve (especially being challenged as I'm back at work) but I can tell that my memory - specifically my ability to recall words, names etc… in the moment - hasn't fully recovered.
The exciting part is that it worked! After 3 months we rebase-lined (bone marrow biopsy, PET scan, blood work) and I'm officially in remission with no detectable cancer. It's been 4.5 months and I feel great. I'm back to an active lifestyle and back in the garden (it was very hard to be away from that for 3 months, in the spring no less).
Maintenance
I started a low dose of Revlimid (10 mg) at the beginning of July and am tolerating it well (I think I might have minor mouth sores related to it but so far that's all that I've really noticed). I will check in with my oncologist monthly for the foreseeable future.
Gratitude
I am the luckiest unlucky person I know. I have had amazing support from friends, family and medical professionals. I am privileged and have access to excellent healthcare (local experts and heath insurance covered by my employer). I had access to short and long term disability allowing me to be away from work without financial impact. I am young for this diagnosis and healthy otherwise without comorbidities. I have this disease at a time when medical research is at its height and am very optimistic about its future - go science! And given that this disease is twice as common and twice as deadly in underserved populations I'm focused on using my privilege for advocacy going forward. My thoughts go out to all of my fellow patients, hoping for some measure of the support that I've received.
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@jadams4197 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect! @auntieoakley is right about there being so many things to consider while you research this condition! She is a gem and oh! so knowledgeable in this.
Multiple Myeloma has several different types and the treatments can vary widely. Please do not go down a rabbit hole of using Dr. Google! Your situation is similar to others, but unique to you. A good hematologist-oncologist will take into account not only your multiple myeloma, but any other health condition you are living with, to help trailer a treatment plan that will work best for you.
For today, take a deep breath. Grab a cup of tea and a couple of cookies, and relax. Can you try that?
Ginger
I found HealthTree (the website and the app) as the most comprehensive place for information on myeloma. Don’t panic, learn as much as you can and find a myeloma specialist. HealthTree can help you find a specialist and has a whole library of videos to watch as well as a forum to ask questions about myeloma.
@jw57
if you research integrative oncology and multiple myeloma (MM) or smouldering, you will find resources.
By the way, I am currently in the UK (from Canada) and there is not near the number of initiatives in this area of medicine compared with unstoppable, many in the United States!
(lots of doctors are focussing on this type of medicine, which does not discount mainstream medicine. It adds the complementary approaches of intergrative oncology.
The UK nutritionist we work with is a blood cancer survivor and so she has specific recommendations for myeloma that would be different from other cancers. I strongly recommend that you just research. “Best practises integrative oncology”, different schools, practices and research individuals and organizations where there are doctors and other health care practitioners.
Complementary medicine is a marriage of both approaches. Good luck!
@auntieoakley Thank you so much!!! My husband was diagnosed August 2025.
Back in the ER trying to figure out a pain management for Greg’s MM. He’s been on dialysis since 08/01/2025 after his GFR tanked and he’s on Cycle 1 day 11 of chemo. We’re putting radiation back on the table to focus on the lesions. He’s low energy and cannot walk, sit, stand without discomfort. I walk behind him for support. Goal is to recover kidneys, finish chemo and on to transplant if necessary. Appreciate any feedback and support. ❤️
@jadams4197
Hello friend ! I agree very strongly with the volunteer who wrote that you should read ! Read ! Get on MAYO CLINICS SITE !! I trust this information!! When I read I also take notes ! Get a notebook specifically for your medical information
And write information!! I find that I remember more and also helps me find what I read !! You are young ! You can learn ! Need to learn so that when you go to doctors you can ask good important questions!! Also ? Write down questions you want to ask?? That is why it’s extremely important you learn as much as you can!!
Knowledge is key to understanding what the doctors are saying !!
I read and read and take notes!! Eventually you will realize that you are understanding about your illness! You will learn what are important questions you should ask !! Doctors are extremely busy !! They have limited time to give us ! You have many years to live !! It’s worth battling for !
May you be BLESSED
@hanya
Yes, since my husband was diagnosed with MDS 2 years ago, I read and read everything on google and other web sites (even some UK and Australian ones ) . Knowledge is power !
@sallik74
I have been smoldering since 2014
@66wings
Wow ! I pray I can smolder as long as you.
Do you do anything special? Vitamins, exercise, etc.
I don’t exercise like I should now because I just had a knee replaced. I plan on going back to the gym soon. I take vitamins and supplements but mostly I have a strong prayer life and it carries me through .