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My Son needs a Kidney Transplant I need advice selecting a Hospital
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Thank you for sharing with me, was your Kidney Transplant with a living donor? My Son has already started the process and doesn’t want to change because he states he’ll have to start the process all over again. He didn’t get a second opinion or research the best hospitals for this. I feel it is important where we have it done, their experience and success rate not only for the surgery but life longevity afterwards. I haven’t met his team or gotten on the living donors list as yet because of this. He moved forward without sharing all his steps with me. I immediately offered to be his living donor but I didn’t think we were locked into doing it with them.
I would like to meet his team and speak with them before getting on the list. My Son told me you can only be on one. I understand it is a long process. He stayed with the hospital he went to when he got extremely ill and went to the emergency room not knowing what was wrong. Although his doctor was recommended by our primary care doctor, I still have concerns, it’s more with the hospital and past experiences there. Ultimately the Nephrologist is not the surgeon performing the transplant. I want to do this for him and my grandson, I pray I am a good match.
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@deedee99, hello! I work with the team at Mayo Clinic in Minnesota. I am happy to answer any questions you have about kidney transplant at Mayo or in general. You can also email me at transplant-rst@mayo.edu if that's more comfortable for you.
I'd like to clarify a few things for you. A patient can be on more than one kidney transplant wait list. As long as his insurance is open to covering multiple doctor visits, he can be listed for transplant in varying regions in the United States. He doesn't need to live near the transplant center, but I understand why it may be easier to be located close by. Most transplant center will accept testing done elsewhere so it's not usually considered "starting over", but he still may need to travel to the other center to meet their team and be examined.
Mayo Clinic has many options for kidney transplant including, pre-emptive kidney transplant (transplant prior to being on dialysis), living donor kidney transplant, paired exchange kidney transplant, deceased donor kidney transplant, and kidney transplant for patients with weight concerns. I am happy to discuss these options with you here or by email, or with your son as well.
Kidney transplant patients are typically followed by a nephrologist, but the patient should be meeting with a surgeon as well prior to the transplant.
I hope these details are helpful for you. I am happy to help further if you need more information. And thank you for considering living donation. It's so helpful to patients to have a donor identified. I hope you both find the right hospital for you. - Kristin
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@deedee99My kidney came from a deceased donor. I was in ESRD for 10 years before I finally had to give in and get the transplant. Since I had registered as soon as I was diagnosed ESRD I had accrued 10 years of waiting time and they began offering me kidneys almost immediately. Since I still wasn't on dialysis I waited to get a really good kidney. I turned a few down but when they offered me a kidney from 32 year old woman who had dies of a stroke I took it and we did it the next morning. It is possible that your son may be able to go a long time without dialysis.