What supplies to stock up before prostate surgery?
I was recently diagnosed with mid grade prostate cancer (Gleason 4+3). I was given option of either Proton Beam+Hormone treatment or nerve sparing prostatectomy. I’m leaning toward the later since I can use radiation in the future if I have recurrence.
I suspect there are previous discussions regarding product recommendations for incontinence post surgery? I will search again, but would appreciate any current recommendations. I’m an active 63 year old that enjoys hiking, biking, golfing and skiing. I realize biking will be on hold as I progress through recovery.
Thanks for your input!
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Same with me no irritation. I was going to my clients offices and I had to empty the bag occasionally, but was able to do that in a small bathroom for 1 at all offices since my clients didn’t have a lot of employees.
The catheter was real convenient actually.
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2 ReactionsGreat list, @soli.
For anyone perparing for prostate surgery, also see these related discussions:
- Supplies recommendations post prostatectomy https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/supplies-recommendations-post-prostatectomy/
- What supplies did you have ready for urinary incontinence after RP https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/post-rp-supplies-for-ui/
- Prostate cancer surgery: What can I expect & prepare for? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/48-about-to-have-prostate-removal-surgery/
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3 ReactionsPad for my side of the bed, car and chair. Disposable incontinence underwear (babies wear diapers), and pads for a couple of months. Oh, and parked a 5 gallon bucket by the bed for the week in case I needed to empty my cath at night. Easier to go back to sleep and only needed it the first night.
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2 Reactions@heavyphil glad to hear that things are much better now. Thanks for sharing your experience.
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1 Reaction@heavyphil -- Interesting comment. Although I consider myself fully continent, I've noticed when sitting on the toilet during bowel movements that if simply pass gas I also have an involuntary urine release. For whatever reason, I simply don't seem to have a lot gas in my old age so it isn't something I've had to worry about. But if I feel the urge to pass gas, I'll hold it until I can get to a toilet. I never mentioned it as I thought it was just me 🙂 It's actually a bit of a relief knowing it's not just me. I certainly don't know but I suspect that since passing gas happens infrequently our subconcious minds just haven't figured out how to handle the new normal when it comes to passing gas without releasing urine. For sleeping I think I might go back to the 3' X 3' waterproof pad based on your comment. Best wishes.
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2 Reactions@heavyphil Thanks so much for suggestions.
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1 Reaction@retireditguy
the way I look at it, a night time event is a low probability, but with a high consequence
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2 Reactions@marlon -- well said. I completely agree.