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@deniae
I can understand how you feel. I haven't reached that point but what I deal with really gets to me. Especially the CONSTANT moaning and groaning, honking and trying to get up nonexistent phlegm - ALL DAY, EVERY DAY on top of his mental deterioration.
I know I shouldn't let his adult children get to me, but when they are lining up to go for anything he has his name on after he passes (AND he is a long way from that right now), well that is one more thing that adds to my state now.
Like you say, every one tells you to get help. But getting help is difficult and expensive. H also makes it difficult.
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being too depended on my husband for certain things has everything to do with these suicidal thoughts. He depends on my too but the difference is if I DIED HE WOULDN'T COMMIT SUICIDE. i am a wild card.
@kartwk I think your main concern right now should be to make sure your will/trust hopefully you have one is sealed in concrete. My husband has three children we haven’t seen in 45 years but I made sure they were listed to receive nothing on our trust. I hope you did the same? There is no way any of his children could contest this.
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@kartwk I can only imagine the extra stress of the family vultures coming out to claim materialistic things. I don't have that. I have my brother whos is my power of attorney because I haven't been stable and if he feels my decision making is off he will challenge the other person in court but he isn't after my assets