@suppiskey2surv I get it! My spouse sits silently by and does nothing/or say something. I read on my spouses portal that his neurologist said that I interrupted him. No, he did not understand the question. I do not care what they think. Long story short if it needs intervention I speak up. He told his Physical Therapists his back surgery cured his Parkinson's. No it actually decreased his pain ..nothing to do with his condition. Actually after the surgery he was really confused at times. I knew it was his meds. Reduced them after so he would not fall.I had to sit on the bedroom floor with him for over 2 hrs. I had him lay down and roll until he was able to get up and back in his bed. The next day the meds were decreased by me. He had less pain and was more congnizant. I felt he was improving slowly..but we got through it together. 🫂