Incontinence and pain in hands?

Posted by kerryberry @kerryberry, Sep 19, 2023

Recently, I have started to have difficulty holding it at times, running to the bathroom (and did not make it two days ago). When I urinate (sometimes not much), I often feel pain in my hands when bearing down (sorry if TMI), which I find very odd. I have fibromyalgia and some other physical issues my rheumatologist isn't sure of the cause yet. Went to urgent care to test for UTI, which was negative and the urgent care doctor agreed the hand pain was odd.

I am going through menopause and this symptom started after an endometrial biopsy a month and a half ago, but did get better after a couple of weeks when my cervix stopped hurting, then returned. I'm not sure if I should see a urologist or go back to my gynecologist.

Has anyone ever had this symptom and if so, what kind of doctor did you see for it?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Women's Health Support Group.

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I am new here and just saw this. Yes, I get hand pain when I pee. It is neurological for me. Doctors thought for awhile that I had fibro. Turned out to be a serious form of neuropathy that really affects everything including my heart. But the hand pain is really weird, isn't it. A lot of my nerve pain is weird.

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Hello @itiswhatitis and welcome to Mayo Connect. You mention that you have a serious form of neuropathy. I would be interested in learning more about how this affects you.

On Connect, we offer a support group for members with neuropathy. Here is a link to those discussions: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/neuropathy/. As you read the posts, you will undoubtedly find others who have posted about similar problems.

How long ago were you diagnosed, and what are your most bothersome symptoms?

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Hello @itiswhatitis and welcome to Mayo Connect. You mention that you have a serious form of neuropathy. I would be interested in learning more about how this affects you.

On Connect, we offer a support group for members with neuropathy. Here is a link to those discussions: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/neuropathy/. As you read the posts, you will undoubtedly find others who have posted about similar problems.

How long ago were you diagnosed, and what are your most bothersome symptoms?

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@hopeful33250 I have small fiber, large fiber, autonomic, and trigeminal neuralgia. It is the autonomic that is serious and life threatening. I started symptoms in the early 90's and was diagnosed in 2005. I didn't get my type 1 diabetes until 2012 when pancreatitis shut down my pancreas. So it is possible my autoimmune diseases caused the neuropathy. I started with dizziness and then I got digestive issues and struggled for years with those and the other neuropathies causing severe pain. Now, I was living on a feeding tube but had it removed for quality of life sake. I have Cardiac autonomic neuropathy and my blood pressure is extremely unstable. I can go from 220/120 to what it was this morning...58/35. The low blood pressure is the worst and I can barely walk because of it. Exercise is impossible. I have incontinence because I don't feel that i have to go. My legs, from the knees down, are completely numb and have no reflexes anymore. I have no ability to self regulate my body temp...and that is very uncomfortable. The trigeminal neuralgia gives me very severe headaches. I have basically gotten to the point of...what symptoms don't I have. It is extremely hard to live with and I have been disabled since I was 25...I'm 57 now. I am all alone in life so the county set me up with home and nursing care. I have chosen to have a DNR at this point because things are so painful and overwhelming. My neurologist won't treat me anymore and wants me to go to Mayo to inquire about a vagus nerve stimulator. Unfortunately, the transportation is likely impossible. So, there you go...the story of me and I will definitely look up that support group.

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@hopeful33250 I have small fiber, large fiber, autonomic, and trigeminal neuralgia. It is the autonomic that is serious and life threatening. I started symptoms in the early 90's and was diagnosed in 2005. I didn't get my type 1 diabetes until 2012 when pancreatitis shut down my pancreas. So it is possible my autoimmune diseases caused the neuropathy. I started with dizziness and then I got digestive issues and struggled for years with those and the other neuropathies causing severe pain. Now, I was living on a feeding tube but had it removed for quality of life sake. I have Cardiac autonomic neuropathy and my blood pressure is extremely unstable. I can go from 220/120 to what it was this morning...58/35. The low blood pressure is the worst and I can barely walk because of it. Exercise is impossible. I have incontinence because I don't feel that i have to go. My legs, from the knees down, are completely numb and have no reflexes anymore. I have no ability to self regulate my body temp...and that is very uncomfortable. The trigeminal neuralgia gives me very severe headaches. I have basically gotten to the point of...what symptoms don't I have. It is extremely hard to live with and I have been disabled since I was 25...I'm 57 now. I am all alone in life so the county set me up with home and nursing care. I have chosen to have a DNR at this point because things are so painful and overwhelming. My neurologist won't treat me anymore and wants me to go to Mayo to inquire about a vagus nerve stimulator. Unfortunately, the transportation is likely impossible. So, there you go...the story of me and I will definitely look up that support group.

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@itiswhatitis

This is a complex issue. It must be frustrating to have lived with this for so many years. I'm tagging @johnbishop, who is the mentor in the Neuropathy support group. Perhaps he can connect you with another member, or discussion that might be helpful to you.

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@hopeful33250 I have small fiber, large fiber, autonomic, and trigeminal neuralgia. It is the autonomic that is serious and life threatening. I started symptoms in the early 90's and was diagnosed in 2005. I didn't get my type 1 diabetes until 2012 when pancreatitis shut down my pancreas. So it is possible my autoimmune diseases caused the neuropathy. I started with dizziness and then I got digestive issues and struggled for years with those and the other neuropathies causing severe pain. Now, I was living on a feeding tube but had it removed for quality of life sake. I have Cardiac autonomic neuropathy and my blood pressure is extremely unstable. I can go from 220/120 to what it was this morning...58/35. The low blood pressure is the worst and I can barely walk because of it. Exercise is impossible. I have incontinence because I don't feel that i have to go. My legs, from the knees down, are completely numb and have no reflexes anymore. I have no ability to self regulate my body temp...and that is very uncomfortable. The trigeminal neuralgia gives me very severe headaches. I have basically gotten to the point of...what symptoms don't I have. It is extremely hard to live with and I have been disabled since I was 25...I'm 57 now. I am all alone in life so the county set me up with home and nursing care. I have chosen to have a DNR at this point because things are so painful and overwhelming. My neurologist won't treat me anymore and wants me to go to Mayo to inquire about a vagus nerve stimulator. Unfortunately, the transportation is likely impossible. So, there you go...the story of me and I will definitely look up that support group.

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@itiswhatitis Hopefully you saw my response to the new discussion you started in the Neuropathy group. Here is the link - https://connect.mayoclinic.org/comment/1406439/

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