I’m sorry about your father. I know firsthand how difficult it is to face this.

It’s good you stepped in to get guardianship. Hope it goes smoothly. Will you or a professional be in charge of the decisions for your father? I’d discuss it thoroughly with the attorneys and the court because it’s a huge responsibility. Hope you have help.

People with dementia often are resistant to care and act in ways that are not in their best interest. It can be hurtful and frustrating. Keep learning as much as you can about his condition. And get support from family, friends and support groups. Sites like this one are invaluable, imo.

My dad had Alzheimer’s for quite a few years. His symptoms weren’t severe until the end, but caring for him was a huge endeavor. We did have good times though and I cherish those memories. While dementia can change a lot about the person, in my dad’s case, he retained most of his qualities and we miss him dearly.

I’m sure on some level your dad welcomes help from his family. I hope that brings you comfort.