Sorry to hear about your problems.
About 15 years ago, I was have issues as well.
I had allergy testing to see what was my problem. I found out I have many issues chemicals, Almost every tree, Perfumes, And many more. For 14 years, I did drops under the tongue and they Helped me a lot.. Today people don’t realize that I have allergies, but I still do.
I also went to night doctor specialist and he said I had dry eyes very dry eyes. When I sleep, I open my eyes or crack my eyes that make my eyes even dry. I had trifocals and I used drops constantly and I ointment at night. A young lady in the optical store recommended a new item goggles that were designed to be worn at night
Three months later, I was having major issues with my glasses. I got in very fast. They checked my eyes and they told me I no longer needed glasses. 20 some years later, I am now starting to wear glasses again, but this time it’s due to age.
That is the reason for my thinking and allergy doctor to see if you have sensitivities to the chemicals around in the environment around you, And a good eye doctor specialist for dry eyes who might be able to help you
Wishing you the best