plural please.
My first wife was treated for pancreatic cancer at the Mayo and the doctors were caring and phenomenally precise on timing. They said 6 months and it was indeed 5 and a half.
Now my current wife has Parkinson's and dementia ( vascular) and I feel like Tunared. She is my life.
We men are lucky to have had and still have our wives. Even with no recognition from our current love.