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@trishaanderson, it’s pretty rough. Honestly…..I haven’t processed it yet. I keep feeling like he’s still around. So surreal. I’ve gone to the grave everyday since the funeral, yet it doesn’t seem real. Idk. I’m considering contacting my therapist for some new sessions.
My mom is really suffering. She cries a lot and isn’t well physically. Recent heart monitor shows issues. So, following up with that.
But, overall as a family (kids, grandkids, great-grandkids, etc,) we are ok. Thanks for asking. Losing a parent is not like I ever expected, no matter the age.
Dementia can progress slowly and then rapid decline. My dad was gone so quickly once he couldn’t walk and lost appetite.
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Celia,
I'm so sorry for the loss you and your poor mom are going through.
I lost both my parents to strokes 5 years apart and never really got the chance to deal with my grief. Having to handle and be responsible for everything after their deaths. I was also dealing with my husband's Alzheimer's. He was not very cooperative or nice during that time when he was not the center of my world.
You are wise to contact your therapist for help.
Warmly, Trish
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Please contact your therapist. Processing is different for everyone, and you need to feel free to express yourself. Not only about Dad, but what the future holds with Mom. We are here for you, but sometimes a few conversations with a trained professional are helpful.
Hugs! My Dad has been gone for 26 years, and I still chat with him sometimes.