You have been through a lot, over the years, and it’s not been easy! As a caregiver, for a wife, who has been seriously ill with heart problems, since quadruple bypass, at the Cleveland Clinic, 35 years ago, I can relate to how you feel! A twist of fate occurred when I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, about 7 years ago. Nowadays, like you, and your husband, there are times when my wife and I are at odds with each other. It’s been difficult for me, because my wife needs my help, most of the time, etc. there’s no time for me to tend to helping myself with my health problems. Keep on, keeping on is all we can do!