Ok, I don’t want to pry but I need to ask you another personal question? Are you constipated, haven’t pooped in a while? Cause that was the culprit with me. Poop gets so hard and u just can’t poop? Cause that will cause that pain in your abdomen but most importantly that hard bowel is bearing down on your bladder and Shazam all the problems you are experiencing are because you need some stool softeners ( if that’s the case) then after you have a healthy bowel movement that other stuff will go away, however it may (probably) caused an infection so you’ll need someone to prescribe you some cipro or something before it gets to your kidneys. But that’s only if you’re constipated? That’s all I got for now, be better & let me know so I can change direction and try to be some help to you. Robert