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I currently do not have a Home Group, I have in past but unfortunately it folded. What I liked it was so welcoming. I drove 30 minutes each way to attend. There are few groups I attended regularly that I like, and here is why:
- Welcoming, especially to new members.
- Mix of sobriety length, new members and others with lot of experience.
- Celebrate anniversaries, where else can people congratulate you for being sober.
- Many people know each other, shows members keep coming back.
- Organized - most meetings are
- Mix of readings, but not to many. Do not like is when spend 20 minutes of meeting doing readings. Takes away from discussions.

I use to be afraid about walking into a new meeting alone, but once in door, fear went away. I tell myself I was never afraid to walk into a bar by myself, a meeting is a much safer space. You can sit and just listen.

If you attend one do not like, try a few times or look for another meeting.

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22 years sober in AA. The old timers reminded me that l wasn't there to critique a group... we all have the common denominator, when it comes to the bottle we are on an equal playing field. Wasn't there to spend months 'shopping' for a sponsor... there is no perfect one. Its surprising what we can learn by listening to someone share that we don't particularly like.. Sometimes it helps us what not to do if we want quality sobriety. As the Big Book says "Acceptance is the key to all of my problems today." Just because you "accept" that something is, does not mean you have to agree with it. Don't drink and go to meetings, most of all, keep coming back.