I'm a senior living alone: How do I find help?

Posted by mogal1951 @mogal1951, Jul 18, 2018

I am a senior woman that lives alone. I fear getting more severely depressed and needing help in my home with meds and food. NO...I do not have ANYONE...been way too depressed for way too long for opportunity to meet people. Does anyone know an organization I can contact that can find help for me? ANY suggestions/ideas would be greatly appreciated. THANKS!

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You should stop a moment and think about all the beauty in this world

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If you’ve ever been depressed, alone and fearful you would know this isn’t helpful….shoulds rarely are.

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If you want/need help you need to look for it. Is there a senior center in your community? If so, try it out. There are agencies out there to help. But they do not walk up your walkway and knock on the door. Get on Google or what search engine you use and start looking. If you really want help, you are going to have to do it yourself.

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Being a senior, like I am, I'm guessing you have Medicare or Medicaid. There should be a help line for info and they should be able to get you some help.
I have Major Depressive Disorder with anxiety. I live alone, but I do have children close by.
I don't know what state you are in, but please let me know if I can help

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Ifyou could e-mail me the town and State that you live in I will Google and do some research for you to see if I can be of help. I know you must feel the desperation and depression that being alone can bring!

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Kdala is the best bet to connecting with seniors and programs for seniors. Senior centers are good ways to find friends, lunches, activities and even local trips. My experience is that some senior centers are I'm[portant to the community.

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If you’ve ever been depressed, alone and fearful you would know this isn’t helpful….shoulds rarely are.

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I have suffered from anxiety and depression since high school. I'm now 65 and it hasn't gone away. I still have to be treated. It's not like "oh, I'll just marvel at God's creations" He knows I have it and He said "it won't be easy, but I will never leave you or forsake you. I will walk with you" do you have insurance? I have to see a psychiatrist. Depression and anxiety are CHEMICAL. Call 211. It's a national hotline number. I don't know if that helps. I hope it can give you a starting place. Please let us know how things turn out.

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If you have United Way in your area they're a great resource. Check your library and any senior center in the county. Meals on wheels know all services available. Check out AARP online for statewide services.

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Please check out your closest Area Agency on Aging. They are free and offer many helpful programs and services.

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I really relate to what you said. I, too, have no one. And I’ve suffered for clinical depression since high school. However, that hasn’t stopped me from making friends. I’m just concerned about when I start getting senile, incapacitated, or whatever who would fill the position a family member would normally fill: getting home health, checking to make sure the ace show up, paying them. I am working out something with a lawyer. I really trust. I’m trying to get a network of friends who don’t have to assume the whole entire job the way a son or daughter might. But for example, if they noticed I was getting to the point where I needed help they would contact him. If he needed to hire a home health aids, they could take turns interviewing them. They would occasionally follow up with home visits to make sure that everything is being done properly and again if there is a problem report back to the lawyer. I think the burden of running the whole show is too much to put on a Friend, but having three or four people who might take on those individual tasks… Well, it’s just like they’d be coming to visit me just like they did before I was incapacitated. It really put my mind at ease, to rest and relieved a lot of stress and anxiety to feel like I could set up something like this. Our society is not set up to “take care of “older people or those who are incapacitated and don’t have family or the incredible friend who would take the place of the son or daughter… A huge responsibility to put on a friend!

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Thank you so much!

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Your state may have an aging agency that you can call. In Pennsylvania, we have them for those in need.

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