thanks for your real life posting. I am wondering if having your husband in therapy is worth the time, energy and expense if he has dementia? My mother has Alzheimer's and can't retain anything longer than a few minutes these days. Whatever a therapist would recommend to her or what she might discuss would be lost in a vapor before end of the visit. Is he or you getting anything out of his psychotherapy? Just wondering. If anything, keep it up for yourself.