@sillyblone
Not at all! And I’m sorry that I put my comment as a reply to yours—I meant to just comment and reference all your great points!

But isn’t it the truth that caregiving is EXHAUSTING! My dad is really not demanding and really makes an effort to be independent and considerate. Needing help is super frustrating to him! But the plain facts are that as we age (he is in his mid 90’s), we need more and more support. And I tend to be such a worrier—and there is plenty to ruminate on and to try to keep track of! Lots of lists and notes from doc appointments or phone consults with directions in my phone, and alarms on my phone to signal med times!😵‍💫

I wish you and your spouse peace and health and I wish you some good rest!