@nikki6, being diagnosed with cancer is hard enough. Yes, you need to get away from the abusive relationship to get treatment, care and for a successful recovery. Most cancer centers and hospitals have social workers available for cancer patients. Read more here:
- How an Oncology Social Worker Can Help https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/cancer-education-center/newsfeed-post/how-an-oncology-social-worker-can-help/

You can also get help from National Domestic Violence Hotline website http://www.thehotline.org/ On this website you will find a phone number to call 1-800-799-7233 or you can use the online chat and get help without saying a word. By calling the Hotline, you can work with trained counsellors to find safety and a solution that is right for you.

I'm also tagging @kmlnj, who went through thyroid cancer, treatment and recovery on her own. She may be able to share more about what you can expect.

Nikki, first thing is to get you in a place where you can be safe. Are you being seen at a cancer center? Can you ask to talk to a social worker?