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Prostate Cancer | Last Active: May 24 9:36am | Replies (27)

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Hans, you’re killing me, man! Such a long, sordid, detailed diatribe with so many misleading and derogatory statements that I couldn’t even finish your post. Prostate cancer patients wanting to share more time with loved ones are “cowards” with credit cards??!! A horrible, agonizing death by an undetected, aggressive, metastasized prostate cancer ravaging a 50 year old man’s spine, kidneys, liver and other organs is no more dramatic than dying from good health???!! Doctors who work tirelessly to care for patients, getting squeezed by hospital administrators and insurance companies and mountains of required paperwork and databases while trying to pay off medical school loans after more than a decade of training are all wearing Rolex watches and a “mask of concern,” not genuinely concerned about their patients’ quality of life? And our government’s spending decisions to give more and more to excessively wealthy billionaires and an overstuffed military budget that dwarfs the next several countries’ budgets by a multiple factor and makes us not one iota safer doesn’t even make it on your radar in determining why we are so terribly underfunding and undervaluing education and social welfare services? I don’t know what monstrous medical staff you have dealt with, but I genuinely feel sorry for you as that has not been my experience. 14 years after first being detected as having prostate cancer and receiving outstanding care and treatment — neither of which had been available to the generations of millions of men prior to the discoveries and treatments yielded by the research you rail against — I continue to enjoy a full, healthy life, having walked both my daughters down the aisle and loving my life with them, my wife, grandchildren, and friends. There is so much else wrong with your post, but I will stop here. But I just couldn’t let your comments go.

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Thank you for your heartfelt response. I truly appreciate the passion and the personal story you've shared. It’s clear that your journey with prostate cancer has been shaped by exceptional care and a supportive medical team, and I’m genuinely glad you've had such a positive outcome. Walking your daughters down the aisle and enjoying life with your family is a powerful testament to what good treatment can offer.

That said, my post wasn’t meant as a personal attack on individual patients or doctors, especially not on those who are doing their best under intense pressure. Rather, it was a critique of systemic issues: the over-treatment driven by fear, the commercialization of care, and the occasional misuse of medical authority that some patients, myself included, have experienced firsthand. Yes, my tone was sardonic, and intentionally so, because sometimes humor and provocation are the only ways left to challenge the sacred cows of an increasingly impersonal system.

Calling patients "cowards with credit cards" was not aimed at all patients. It was a jab at how fear is sometimes exploited by a profit-driven system. And while I used absurd comparisons, like “dying from good health,” they were rhetorical devices to expose contradictions, not literal beliefs.

You’re right to call me out where you disagree. I welcome that. But I hope you'll also see that my cynicism comes from a deep frustration, not from a lack of hope or respect for life. I’m not trying to erase the good; I’m simply trying to name the bad, because it still exists, even alongside success stories like yours. Thanks again for taking the time to respond.

Warmly, Haaaaaans