Bladder Surgery to remove and determine stage, type, etc..

I am 52 years old. I have never smoked, but I did serve in Iraq 20 years ago where I worked near the burn pits (Toxic Exposure). On Christmas morning, while at the airport to fly to Arizona I had blood in my urine a couple of times. I quickly made an appt with my doctor for Jan 3rd. When I landed, no more blood or thereafter. Well, I kept the appt and all my tests came back normal. There was no microscopic blood in my urine. He decided to schedule a CT scan (Jan 17th) just to make sure and 9 days later he called me on a Sunday night (Jan 26th) and gave me the news. I have a mass 2.9cm x 2.8cm x 2.2cm in my bladder. No findings for metastatic disease in other areas. We were able to get an appt with a Urologist (Jan 28th) for a Cystoscopy. Based on his findings and he took pictures, I have Papillary tumors. During the Cystoscopy they took some urine for tests. They found numerous microscopic red blood cells in the urine. He didn't take a Biopsy but decided to go ahead and schedule surgery (Feb 13th) for Bladder tumor scraping, biopsy, and cauterize the area to stop the bleeding. I will leave with a Foley Catheter, which will be removed on Feb 17th. I won't know the results (Stage, Grade, type of cancer, non-invasive or invasive) until my follow-up Feb 27th. It seems like a long time to wait given others on here received their reports in a couple of days. Maybe my pathology report will be available to me earlier through my online medical records.
Should I get a PET Scan? Can anyone tell me what recovery is like? What should I expect going through this process?