I understand what you’re saying about dysfunctional families, it’s something that is passed down and continues through the years. I have also known people who didn’t have any issues with their children yet they were pushed out of their lives, sometimes it’s caused by their children choosing partners who came from trauma and they bring it to your family, I speak from experience. I don’t have any plan as to what to do except let them know you’re there for them, these things can cause more trauma if they have children of their own, they just paint everyone with the same brush and don’t want to try and make things better, at the end of the day, you just have to stay strong and hope for better times ahead.