What Scott said! And if you can use the proceeds even a little bitn to add some extra conveniences for her, even better as she will have a feeling of participation. Please don't wait on the too high bed, that is actually a current danger. If she has a good mattress she likes, there are ways to lower it. Half height box springs, no box spring at all - just a platform, frames with adjustable legs. Falls from bed or getting in or out can be devastating.