Meet others living with Head & Neck Cancer: Introduce yourself

Welcome to the Head and Neck Cancer group.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet other people who are living with head and neck cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share experiences from diagnosis through treatment and coping with symptoms and recovery challenges.

As you know, head and neck cancer is the general term for a broad group of cancers that begin in the head and neck region. This include oropharyngeal cancer, hypopharyngeal cancer, laryngeal cancer, lip and oral cavity cancer, nasopharyngeal cancer, paranasal sinus and nasal cavity cancer, salivary gland cancer, squamous cell neck cancer or ameloblastoma.

Let’s get to know one another. Why not start by introducing yourself? What type of cancer have you been diagnosed with?

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@alexandra24

Hello all, I have been diagnosed with adenoid cystic carcinoma of the minor salivary gland. It was diagnosed by biopsy back in February and I am waiting for treatment now. It’s in my sinus region and they don’t think they will be able to get clear margins as is too close to the skull base. Has anyone else been in this situation of not being able to get clear margins in surgery and if so did you end up having the surgery or just radiotherapy? We have had 50:50 responses on whether it’s worth removing as much as possible/debulk before radiotherapy or just do radiotherapy alone (although previously told alone wouldn’t do much). Just wondering what experiences people had and whether thoughts vary around the world? Thank you, nice to be a part of this group

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@alexandra24, have you decided on your treatment path? What has your cancer team suggested? Did you get a second opinion?

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Hello @colleenyoung. No treatment plan set yet. It looks like probably radiotherapy. I am looking into carbon ion therapy at Heidelberg in Germany or the hadrontherapy in Pavia. I’m wondering if anyone has any experience of these. I spoke to the oncologist yesterday in our hospital and he had zero interest in discussing it but did say be careful of carbon ion therapy as he knew someone who was disfigured from side effects of it. Does anyone have any further info on this?
Regarding second opinions, it seems impossible to get hold of scans to forward on to anyone. I have been a week on the phone for hours and hours trying to get them so I can forward on to hospitals but so far no luck

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@sepdvm

Hello @alexandra24 and welcome to Head and Neck Connect. Also sorry that you need to be here, but we can offer support to help you get through this. I know your cancer is a rare one and hopefully others will chime in with their experiences.

My SCC of skin origin began in my ear canal near the eardrum and invaded into the temporal bone of my skull. I had surgery at Mayo Clinic with partial parotidectomy and neck dissection and margins were not clear. The followup was then radiation with a targeted drug to sensitize the tumor cells to the radiation. That was started 5 weeks after surgery, delayed due to logistics. SCC is not particularly sensitive to radiation unless it is HPV associated, which mine was not. I have not had a recurrence at that site in 13 years. I have had 4 metastases which have been dealt with surgically, and the last one by Immunotherapy.

My advice is to ask for referral, even by videovisit, to a major referral cancer center where they have the most experience in rare cancers. It sounds like you may have done this already. If radiation alone does not offer a good prognosis then I would be seeking out a surgeon with much experience. My surgery and recovery were not fun and games, but it was certainly better than having a cancer growing into my skull. Radiation and chemo were the tougher part of the whole treatment.

Is your medical team already a part of a large referral center? Have you asked about complications of surgery ? Have they discussed following surgery with radiation if margins are not clear? Having a rare cancer means there is less information available to help you and your medical team make decisions. Be strong and you will get through this.

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Thank you so much for this @sepdvm . I’m sorry that you’ve had to go through that but amazing that you are 13 years down the line with local recurrence. I get the impression from consultants that metastasis is the main problem but again that’s amazing that you’ve been able to have them dealt with.
My ACC is very near the near blood vessel and nerves going through the foramen rotundum so they wouldn’t be able to remove this bit. Therefore the thoughts are what’s the point in removing the large part sitting below this and below the skull base if this problematic part will be left. Some surgeons have said if you debulk the tumour the smaller parts will be easier to deal with for radiotherapy. Others have said that it makes no difference - radiotherapy will deal with the large tumour in the same way it will the smaller parts. So this is the bit I don’t know! The worry is the risk of surgery given the closeness to the skull base and the risk of CSF leakage. Also someone mentioned the increased risk of metastasis with surgery if it gets in the bloodstream. In my mind if less of the tumour is there there are less cancer cells to ‘wake up’ from the radiotherapy. I didn’t realise you could sensitise the tumour before radiotherapy - ACC obviously being pretty radio resistant one too. I will look in to this. Did they know they wouldn’t be able to remove your tumour with clear margins? I tried to get a telephone appointment with Mayo clinic but they only do them in person sadly.

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@alexandra24

Thank you so much for this @sepdvm . I’m sorry that you’ve had to go through that but amazing that you are 13 years down the line with local recurrence. I get the impression from consultants that metastasis is the main problem but again that’s amazing that you’ve been able to have them dealt with.
My ACC is very near the near blood vessel and nerves going through the foramen rotundum so they wouldn’t be able to remove this bit. Therefore the thoughts are what’s the point in removing the large part sitting below this and below the skull base if this problematic part will be left. Some surgeons have said if you debulk the tumour the smaller parts will be easier to deal with for radiotherapy. Others have said that it makes no difference - radiotherapy will deal with the large tumour in the same way it will the smaller parts. So this is the bit I don’t know! The worry is the risk of surgery given the closeness to the skull base and the risk of CSF leakage. Also someone mentioned the increased risk of metastasis with surgery if it gets in the bloodstream. In my mind if less of the tumour is there there are less cancer cells to ‘wake up’ from the radiotherapy. I didn’t realise you could sensitise the tumour before radiotherapy - ACC obviously being pretty radio resistant one too. I will look in to this. Did they know they wouldn’t be able to remove your tumour with clear margins? I tried to get a telephone appointment with Mayo clinic but they only do them in person sadly.

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Clean margins were the goal, but the depth of tumor growth in cochlea area was difficult. In the end he was just grinding away bone with nothing left to check margins so final positive piece was what we had to go with. I have always felt that surgery is the first best option, but with a mass in close proximity to important structures that changes. Some treatments may cause shrinkage of the original mass so that surgery down the road may have better results. I would expect that larger volumes of tissue being irradiated could cause more side effects due to increased surface area being treated. But I'm not a radiation oncologist. When I asked the Mayo radiation oncologist if all radiation is equal, he said definitely not. He was able to recommend a well known radiation oncologist closer to home for my treatment. So asking about experience and success rate may also be important if you have choices.

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@jeghotsheet

I was diagnosed with SC tongue CA 2 .5 years ago followed by partial glossectomy and flap graft, then radiation for 6 weeks. More than 40 nodes were removed from my right neck with only one being positive. I had no significant risk factors other than a sibling with tongue CA. The most traumatic part of treatment was post radiation side effects including significant oral pain. Magic mouthwash and Hydrocodone did not give adequate relief, so finally I was placed on long acting morphine that did relieve the severe mouth burning. I was weened off of morphine after 6 weeks with no issue. Subsequently, I learned how to eat solids again but had some limitations with chewing on one side as a molar became loose, then eventually fell out. I continue to have severe dry mouth especially at night with mouth breathing, some difficulty with large pills, too big of food pieces and occasionally choke just on liquids. I find that xylogel works the best for the dry mouth. My speech is slightly affected but can be understood for the most part. I have experienced new tongue pain far posterior to the the site of the original ulcer that was on the lateral mid side of my tongue. It is especially uncomfortable with solids sliding past that portion of my tongue and aggravated with talking. CT and MRI recently are negative, as well, as having no findings on the oral exam by my surgeon. I am awaiting the next steps to follow up. In addition, I am dealing with one more loose molar that has been shaved off to the gum line to enhance cleaning that tooth that had been surrounded by an inflamed gum. Eating has changed again to pureed foods or very soft foods to reduce pain with swallowing. I have been told that on occasion there may be unexplained oral pain following radiation. One caveat I learned after the radiation treatment that is, don't hesitate to seek adequate pain treatment if the initial medications are not doing the job. The other caveat is that the water pick became my new best friend using it after every intake along with brushing with a rodadent TB. Taste has change a lot, especially sweet flavors. I may get a burst of flavor with the first one or 2 bites then it is very blunted. I can distinguish non sweet foods but some may be more over powering than before. I tolerate very few spices, especially hot spices. ETOH and peppermint are absolutely not tolerated. Even things like cinnamon or garlic applied too heavily will burn my mouth. It's been trial and error for many foods making eating out a considerable challenge. By joining this group, I hope to give some insight perhaps and learn from other's experiences. It has been a difficult journey for me, so when I say I understand at least some of your difficulties, it is coming from a pace of personal experience and empathy.

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Welcome, @jeghotsheet. Your experiences will be helpful, especially to newly diagnosed members. You may wish to use the group search to find discussions of interest. Here are a few suggestions:

- How do you care for teeth and dental health after H&N cancer?https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/recommendations-for-teeth-and-dental-health/
- Mouth issues (blisters and gum swelling) years after radiation https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/upper-gums-swell-up-now-and-then/
- Anyone have difficulty with speech (forming words) after radiation? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/speech-difficulty-after-radiation/

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@jeghotsheet

I was diagnosed with SC tongue CA 2 .5 years ago followed by partial glossectomy and flap graft, then radiation for 6 weeks. More than 40 nodes were removed from my right neck with only one being positive. I had no significant risk factors other than a sibling with tongue CA. The most traumatic part of treatment was post radiation side effects including significant oral pain. Magic mouthwash and Hydrocodone did not give adequate relief, so finally I was placed on long acting morphine that did relieve the severe mouth burning. I was weened off of morphine after 6 weeks with no issue. Subsequently, I learned how to eat solids again but had some limitations with chewing on one side as a molar became loose, then eventually fell out. I continue to have severe dry mouth especially at night with mouth breathing, some difficulty with large pills, too big of food pieces and occasionally choke just on liquids. I find that xylogel works the best for the dry mouth. My speech is slightly affected but can be understood for the most part. I have experienced new tongue pain far posterior to the the site of the original ulcer that was on the lateral mid side of my tongue. It is especially uncomfortable with solids sliding past that portion of my tongue and aggravated with talking. CT and MRI recently are negative, as well, as having no findings on the oral exam by my surgeon. I am awaiting the next steps to follow up. In addition, I am dealing with one more loose molar that has been shaved off to the gum line to enhance cleaning that tooth that had been surrounded by an inflamed gum. Eating has changed again to pureed foods or very soft foods to reduce pain with swallowing. I have been told that on occasion there may be unexplained oral pain following radiation. One caveat I learned after the radiation treatment that is, don't hesitate to seek adequate pain treatment if the initial medications are not doing the job. The other caveat is that the water pick became my new best friend using it after every intake along with brushing with a rodadent TB. Taste has change a lot, especially sweet flavors. I may get a burst of flavor with the first one or 2 bites then it is very blunted. I can distinguish non sweet foods but some may be more over powering than before. I tolerate very few spices, especially hot spices. ETOH and peppermint are absolutely not tolerated. Even things like cinnamon or garlic applied too heavily will burn my mouth. It's been trial and error for many foods making eating out a considerable challenge. By joining this group, I hope to give some insight perhaps and learn from other's experiences. It has been a difficult journey for me, so when I say I understand at least some of your difficulties, it is coming from a pace of personal experience and empathy.

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Sorry to hear about your troubles. I finished treatments 1/10/2025. Followed by 3-4 weeks of gradually increasing tough times with pain and difficulty swallowing, dryness of mouth, absence of taste, periodic thickness of mucous.
Then most of my issues resolved.
Still have dry mouth pretty frequently.... and food in my mouth dries up particularly with bread or pasta in my mouth with it.
Little taste has returned.... can taste things like sweet potato, pickles, cucumber, olives, but little else. Though I have experienced a few times where I taste food for the first couple of bites then taste gets muted as I continue eating (sounds like you have this experience too).
Throat gets sore from time to time so I go back to the salt/baking soda gargling. Actually keep up with this gargling pretty regularly again.
Most recently, Lymphedema (swelling of neck) set in at the two month, two week point after I terminated treatment. Seeing a PT with license for treating lymphedema and a neck compression brace is ordered.

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@colleenyoung

Welcome, @jeghotsheet. Your experiences will be helpful, especially to newly diagnosed members. You may wish to use the group search to find discussions of interest. Here are a few suggestions:

- How do you care for teeth and dental health after H&N cancer?https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/recommendations-for-teeth-and-dental-health/
- Mouth issues (blisters and gum swelling) years after radiation https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/upper-gums-swell-up-now-and-then/
- Anyone have difficulty with speech (forming words) after radiation? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/speech-difficulty-after-radiation/

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Thank you for the reply. Dental care is a big deal even before starting Radiation. At the University Dental clinic I went to, they fitted me with upper and lower teeth guards to use daily with Fluoride gel after radiation treatment. Because of the significant oral pain and sensitivity, I didn't try the Fluoride get and guard until months after radiation. Then the prescription was way too strong that caused burning. After several tries of different potency, I found that berry flavored Colgate Gel Kam o.4% worked the best. However, it is mildly irritating, so I apply it with a soft tooth brush before bed at night. I lost one lower molar over the course of a year, slowly loosening then just falling out. It was not recommended to pull the molar in the highest radiated section of the jaw due to concern for microvascular trauma, infection, and finally osteonecrosis. Unfortunately, the molar in front of that tooth also became loose, resulting in periodontal abscess. The molar was a root canal and never became as sensitive with chewing as did the first molar. The approach was to shave off the top part of the molar to expose the biforcation of the root, fill the roots in with amalgam, This allows better cleaning at the site of the biforcation. The roots will eventually fall out. I have used Chlorhexadine mouth rinse periodically for gum inflammation around the loose molars, but it burns due to the alcohol content. I simply syringe a small amount around the gum of the loose tooth. I don't tolerate most tooth pastes with mint flavor, so I use children's berry flavored toothpaste. I brush and floss twice a day and use the water pick after each time I eat 3 times per day. I don't tolerate most mouth rinses b/c of the peppermint and use Biotene rinse highly diluted. (a few squirts in a cup of water). It gives temporary dry mouth comfort. I found a non-flavored mouth rinse called KloSYS at Walmart that is not irritating but doesn't offer lubrication. This will likely be a lifetime regimen.

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@4dogsrental

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I finished treatments 1/10/2025. Followed by 3-4 weeks of gradually increasing tough times with pain and difficulty swallowing, dryness of mouth, absence of taste, periodic thickness of mucous.
Then most of my issues resolved.
Still have dry mouth pretty frequently.... and food in my mouth dries up particularly with bread or pasta in my mouth with it.
Little taste has returned.... can taste things like sweet potato, pickles, cucumber, olives, but little else. Though I have experienced a few times where I taste food for the first couple of bites then taste gets muted as I continue eating (sounds like you have this experience too).
Throat gets sore from time to time so I go back to the salt/baking soda gargling. Actually keep up with this gargling pretty regularly again.
Most recently, Lymphedema (swelling of neck) set in at the two month, two week point after I terminated treatment. Seeing a PT with license for treating lymphedema and a neck compression brace is ordered.

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Thank you for the input. I had significant neck swelling following surgery and was directed to massage my neck regularly afterwords. After a good year or more the swelling came down. It didn't really pose any discomfort. More recently, I have had a little more tongue sensitivity to many foods and drinks. I had to stop a herbal regimen I was using to assess the cause. Time will tell if it one of the herbs was the culprit. I will see an oral specialist in the near future regarding unexplained tongue discomfort at the back of the tongue, aggravated with solid foods passing over it and excessive talking. Follow-up imaging and exams have been negative for tumor recurrence. Eating for me has become a task to survive rather than pure enjoyment. Some non-sweetened flavors are magnified while sweet flavors are blunted. I have to pay attention to the mechanics of eating that we mostly take for granted, because portions too large can get stuck in my throat. I go through several glasses of water to get a meal down comfortably. The dry mouth is not comparable to the effects of mouth breathing at night. It is much more severe and becomes uncomfortable to say the least. Pure water gives brief relief but also aggravates it because what's missing is saliva that is viscous and water is not. And so it goes...

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I have read through all your posts. You are all very brave. My Husband Joe just had a neck dissection. They got the mass out and removed 36 lymph nodes as well as a part of his jaw. He has squamous cell carcinoma, CUP cancer of unknown primary. They couldn’t find any cancer in the surrounding area or bones. There is a chance that his body fought off the primary and an equal chance that it is somewhere else.They are suggesting he have radiation and chemotherapy. He wants to wait and watch. He is almost 70. He does not want to suffer prolonged amounts of radiation and side affects. He feels he would rather live his life. This is quite difficult. He has agreed to fill paperwork out for a second opinion at Mayo Clinic. Thank you all for your honest sharing.

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Quick update on husband Joe :We have an appointment at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester for a second opinion in less than 2 weeks! So far they have been so efficient and helpful. Grateful today.MAC

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