would add one more thing got your list hopenjoy2024.
if you can get one a bidet is very helpful. there are cold water ones that just attach under your toilet seat as well as battery operated ones (good to carry with you) The warm water ones require electricity to be available.
I have both the cold water one in one bathroom and a warm one in the other.
I regularly use both. You get used to the cold one. not an issue.
before I had either I used a sitz bath regularly. It was not as painful as I've heard from others, but I was careful to keep Lidocaine cream handy and not wipe hard with toilet paper.
adult pull ups for nighttime use are also a good thing to have handy.
Keeping positive thoughts.