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Geographical location affects you mentally?

Posted by robertwills @robertwills, Apr 7 10:12am

Has anyone move to a new geographical and after they got there was mentally uncomfortable, things didn't go well, they didn't make good decisions, etc.. But where you used to live was nothing like that?

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rashida | @rashida | 1 day ago
In reply to @SusanEllen66 "The flag was lowered. That’s why I took the picture. It’s a State Park." + (show)
@SusanEllen66

The flag was lowered. That’s why I took the picture.
It’s a State Park.

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@SusanEllen66 do you remember why it had been lowered?

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SusanEllen66 | @SusanEllen66 | 1 day ago
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@SusanEllen66 do you remember why it had been lowered?

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@rashida, yes. Every year on September 11, the American flag is lowered to honor the memory of the people who died on 911.

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SusanEllen66 | @SusanEllen66 | 1 day ago
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@robertwills

I only spent a few minutes at most looking at the rental situation and map of Long Island. That was enjoyable and interesting for me because as I indicated I have been to Long Island before, at least on a couple occasions many years ago. I remember the waves at Jones Beach were prefect for enjoyable the ocean. I would go again but for the same price, or lower, I could go to many other places in the world that are better suited to me.

I moved to be near a relative that has dementia. I know about the disease in general from reading about it and experiencing it however I have found that in practice it differs so significantly in people and there seems to be major exceptions. In the case of my relative as soon as they went into assisted living they reversed some of the symptoms due, I believe, to getting the right medication and being in a caring and stimulating environment. They say it's a progressive disease but I have seen with my own eyes a definite reversal. Now it's very stable where before it was definitely progressing.

So you never know what your future will be like. At least you are in Arizona with beautiful scenery, dry air and clear skies. At least I am near my relative but this geographical location is not a good environment for me, hence the reason for my original question. Geography can in fact have a profound effect on your life.

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@robertwills dementia comes in all shapes and sizes. For some of us it’s a rollercoaster. There is decline…improve, and then go down hill again, the up…

My own is slowly revealing itself, and until it does show more symptoms, my doctors ard not able to give me a diagnosis yet. They are leaning towards Frontotemporal Dementia. It’s the type actor Bruce Willis has.

Anyway, for yourself, there are so many informative videos on YouTube for the Caretaker. Some of the ones I have seen is called, “Careblazers”, and others by Teepa Snow. She is an expert! An organization named Dementia Action Alliance DAA is helping me. I attend ZOOM meetings with them.
There is a group here on Mayo Connect for Caretakers.
Your family member is blessed to have you.

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rashida | @rashida | 22 hours ago
In reply to @SusanEllen66 "@rashida, yes. Every year on September 11, the American flag is lowered to honor the memory..." + (show)
@SusanEllen66

@rashida, yes. Every year on September 11, the American flag is lowered to honor the memory of the people who died on 911.

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@SusanEllen66 of course! I should have known that - that was a stupid question on my part!

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robertwills | @robertwills | 21 hours ago
In reply to @rashida "@SusanEllen66 of course! I should have known that - that was a stupid question on my..." + (show)
@rashida

@SusanEllen66 of course! I should have known that - that was a stupid question on my part!

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I thought you might be testing her cognitive ability. Maybe you need to be tested! Maybe I do, too!

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rashida | @rashida | 14 hours ago
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@robertwills

I thought you might be testing her cognitive ability. Maybe you need to be tested! Maybe I do, too!

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@robertwills no Robert, I do not play such games. I can be pretty clueless sometimes, and at those times something very obvious can just go over my head.

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SusanEllen66 | @SusanEllen66 | 8 hours ago
In reply to @robertwills "I thought you might be testing her cognitive ability. Maybe you need to be tested! Maybe..." + (show)
@robertwills

I thought you might be testing her cognitive ability. Maybe you need to be tested! Maybe I do, too!

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@robertwills I don’t require any more testing. I’m alive and kicking.

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