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Difficulty after divorce

Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Nov 18, 2016 | Replies (15)
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@amberpep

Thanks Teresa .... my girls are going to be upset when the time comes for me to tell them I'm going back to MD. They love having me here and I thoroughly enjoy them. But, I just do not like it down here .... plus the fact that my X is being nasty again, so now what happens with the holidays? He won't alternate with me ... oh no, never ... he's a narcassist and he "has every right to be there." I'm tired, depressed and my IBS is really acting up. This is just not worth it.
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safetyshield | @safetyshield | Nov 10, 2016

amberpep see if you can get an allie that can talk to your X. sometimes an intermediator can get somethings accomplished because he or she is not a threat to your X. I am not a lawyer but I know when I have to confront difficult people a third party present can reduce the anxieties and will allow for a solution to be gotten and sometimes if your X has an ego a third party can stroke him without him feeling he gave in. Think about it. Just keep your eye on the goal of getting to see your children for the holidays etc. Good Luck

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Teresa, Volunteer Mentor | @hopeful33250 | Nov 10, 2016

@safetyshield What a great idea! Thanks for that suggestion.

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