I’ve only been a caregiver for three years and I agree with everything you said, thank you! I remember when I used to shower every day, when I could travel to see my grandchildren and family, when I didn’t need to wash my hands 24/7 because of another person’s body fluids, when the person I love and care for is no longer the person I married nearly 50 years ago, when I wasn’t sleep deprived and exhausted and the heck with it, I have to run!!