Yes ma’am something you may bring up to him is that he doesn’t need to allow you to take the role from him permanently, it would only be for the time that he needs for recovery, this would be determined by his medical team. This would be something the Psychiatrist and/or the doctor could talk with him about. Once they determine he can either start taking on more, or give him a complete release then he would be back just like before. This is not an attempt to make him less of a man, it will enable him to make a better and faster recovery.