Do Not Resuscitate Orders, ID Bracelets & Experiences

Posted by joko @joko, Mar 27, 2023

Do you have a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate Order) with your primary care physician? Do you wear a medical ID bracelets/necklace with DNR instructions? What experiences have you (or if you are a caregiver) had with Medical IDs, specifically with the DNR orders? Is there anything critically important that you should consider before you put this on your id and what has happened to people who wear it. (I mean do the EMTs follow instructions?) Appreciate insights.

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@lilly71

I have DNR on my medical records, I never was given a card or anything to carry. Should I ask my primary about that?.

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@lily71 I wear a medical alert bracelet almost all the time. One the back of it includes the DNR, plus the POLST copy in my car.

For me, it's very important that my medical team and anyone else who is in contact with me, understands my wishes. It might seem macabre to some, but not to me.
Ginger

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@gingerw

@lily71 I wear a medical alert bracelet almost all the time. One the back of it includes the DNR, plus the POLST copy in my car.

For me, it's very important that my medical team and anyone else who is in contact with me, understands my wishes. It might seem macabre to some, but not to me.
Ginger

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I will definitely get me a bracelet
Thank you
God bless 🙏

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@casey1329

Thank you elimseoj. You made a lot of good points which I wasn't aware of. The aide didn't have to say much because me and my husband, who is an attorney, got right over there. However, the fireman just kept going at it bragging how he has a great record of reviving them, broken ribs and all.

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I had a DNR and when I had lung surgery they resuscitated me and put me on a ventilator. Later on I told the doctor that I told her I didn't want to be resuscitated or put on a ventilator. He told my sister who was my executor that he Considered a murder to not save my life. Now I'm not sure what to say but they don't always follow your wishes. I was not happy at the time but now I'm I'm OK but it's sometimes I still go through so many exacerbations and that I wish they had just let me go.

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Thanks for the hug. Im okay.

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@kllevinson

I had a DNR and when I had lung surgery they resuscitated me and put me on a ventilator. Later on I told the doctor that I told her I didn't want to be resuscitated or put on a ventilator. He told my sister who was my executor that he Considered a murder to not save my life. Now I'm not sure what to say but they don't always follow your wishes. I was not happy at the time but now I'm I'm OK but it's sometimes I still go through so many exacerbations and that I wish they had just let me go.

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@kllevinson, i'm sorry you had to go through that. that doctor HAD NO RIGHT to force his beliefs on you like that. where you had no choice in the matter. he waited until you were under anesthesia to make his personal choice. by going against your legal choice. did you file a complaint with the hospital board? or the AMA? how long ago did this happen? God Bless you. Daniel

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@danny5

@kllevinson, i'm sorry you had to go through that. that doctor HAD NO RIGHT to force his beliefs on you like that. where you had no choice in the matter. he waited until you were under anesthesia to make his personal choice. by going against your legal choice. did you file a complaint with the hospital board? or the AMA? how long ago did this happen? God Bless you. Daniel

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over 10 years ago. I didnt pursue it.

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@kllevinson

I had a DNR and when I had lung surgery they resuscitated me and put me on a ventilator. Later on I told the doctor that I told her I didn't want to be resuscitated or put on a ventilator. He told my sister who was my executor that he Considered a murder to not save my life. Now I'm not sure what to say but they don't always follow your wishes. I was not happy at the time but now I'm I'm OK but it's sometimes I still go through so many exacerbations and that I wish they had just let me go.

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@kllevinson Just thought I’d let everyone know that a DNR order does not stand during surgery. Odd, but true. Patients who have a DNR often get the surgery to have a better quality of life.
Has your life improved at all since surgery?

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@becsbuddy

@kllevinson Just thought I’d let everyone know that a DNR order does not stand during surgery. Odd, but true. Patients who have a DNR often get the surgery to have a better quality of life.
Has your life improved at all since surgery?

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yes it has improved. Earlier on I went to Pulmonary Rehab rehabilitation and that helped a lot. But I do have a Transportation problem now and I've had problems with osteoporosis so I haven't been able to continue rehab. Overall I feel blessed and I'm glad to have some family and friends who care about me.

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@becsbuddy

@kllevinson Just thought I’d let everyone know that a DNR order does not stand during surgery. Odd, but true. Patients who have a DNR often get the surgery to have a better quality of life.
Has your life improved at all since surgery?

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This was my experience. Thanks for mentioning this. When I had a lumpectomy the surgeon told me my DNR would not apply during the surgery. I was surprised, but I understood that if the patient can be saved the doctors don't want to have killed the patient due to numerous things that can go awry and that can be possibly fixed. I have mixed feelings about this, but was willing to accept it.

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@kllevinson

I had a DNR and when I had lung surgery they resuscitated me and put me on a ventilator. Later on I told the doctor that I told her I didn't want to be resuscitated or put on a ventilator. He told my sister who was my executor that he Considered a murder to not save my life. Now I'm not sure what to say but they don't always follow your wishes. I was not happy at the time but now I'm I'm OK but it's sometimes I still go through so many exacerbations and that I wish they had just let me go.

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@kllevinson I wonder what the legality of that overriding individual doctor intervention is. It raises the question whether the particular doctor was acting on his own beliefs outside the law, or acting within the law.

My attorney under enduring POA and my Guardian perhaps will need to be careful to choose a doctor who respects DNRs.

It’s extremely disappointing. I am living with incurable stage 4 appendix cancer.

I’ve chosen my POA and Guardian carefully to fight for my rights, but I hadn’t factored in doctors who veer towards saving life in the face of a DNR 🤔

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