I did, I know my sister is not happy but has understood. My niece suggested that they stay in a hotel and rent a car and my sister could come for a few hours a day, but my sister said she would end up paying for it and she can’t afford it.
The problem is we are expected to cover costs board and food, no one has ever helped with the cost of food. I have my husband on a schedule he does fine as long as no major changes are made. I emailed my niece and told her the circumstances and said I hoped she understood her response was thanks for the mess. I haven’t heard from my cousin. Such great relatives. When they said they wanted to come within hours I was stressed. I hope you are feeling better. They don’t understand it starts with picking them up at the airport.