I have fibromyalgia and Psoriatic Arthritis. I am 60 and divorced after 38years of marriage. I have deformities so I was very upfront about it when I started dating. I figured that allowed them to walk away before investing in something. I will say, I've found a great guy. He says that if I get to the point where I need constant help, he'll hire someone to help me while he is at work. We do plan on marrying. Great guys are out there! But I found quite a few duds. Best wishes and gentle hugs.