I thought incontinence was just a drip/squirt every once in a while not continuous dripping like I have had for 9 weeks. This has been very frustrating for me. I wear shorts so that I can rush into a bathroom and change my diaper quickly which I do at least 5 times a day because my diaper gets so full. I have learned to stay dehydrated so that I can go for a few hours without changing my diaper. Kegal exercises are getting so old after 9 weeks when I don’t see any improvement at all. At this time, I am very disappointed with my HOLEP surgery and wonder if I should have opted for Turp instead.