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@damadecao

Good afternoon, and thank you for your replies. My friend passed away last week, in the night between Wednesday and Thursday. At 12:12 am to be exact. I was with her. I look at her passing as a blessing in disguise. She was in much much pain. I never did find out exactly the reasons why she was removed from the list but I suspect that there were various reasons for the team to decide it. I believe that the main reason was that the disease had progressed so quickly and in a quite violent manner. She had stopped eating and by the time they last saw her, it appeared evident that she could not have survived the transplant surgery. I have tried to help her these last few months. What I learned is that the support system in this type of procedures is key. My friend did not have it. I live in Peru most of the time. Her family (her son) never showed up for her. I miss her very much but I am glad to know that she is no longer suffering. I so wish she could have made it but… I want to take this opportunity to wish all of you who are going through this type of experience much healing. I had the opportunity to visit Mayo up in Jacksonville and I was amazed by this institute. Best Wishes to all, Sandrine

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Hi, Sandrine.
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. I applaud you for doing all that you could to help her. You were truly a good and supportive friend to her. I pray for comfort and peace for you and for her family during this sad and difficult time. Hold on to and cherish all of the fond memories and good times that you've shared, and she will forever be in your heart. Hugs.

@damadecao, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. It is hard to see someone we love suffer. I'm sure you have been experiencing loss in bits and pieces as you supported her.

Should you wish to talk with others about loss and grief, there is a forum here:
- Loss & Grief Support Group https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/loss-grief/

What would you like us to know about your friend?