Newly diagnosed with CKD (Chronic Kidney Disease) and terrified

Posted by nightwhisper @nightwhisper, Jan 21, 2024

Hello. I'm looking for some comfort because what I read on the internet about kidney disease is very bad. I had blood in the urine from the glomeruli of the kidneys in 2011 but we monitored it and I was doing very well things were quiet. Now suddenly it started to rise my creatinine and the percentage of my kidneys working is low as my nephrologist told me. I think I'm in stage 3 kidney disease. I'm doing tests all the time and I'm afraid that every time I go for blood tests my creatinine will be more and more up and I can't handle it all.I'm so scared it's progressing fast.I always shudder at illnesses and now something so serious is happening to me,it's a nightmare.I thought I was doing fine,I don't know what this new kidney problem is.Can can someone give me some advice to get courage for my disease? What would you say to someone who has just been diagnosed with kidney disease and is panicking? I am very sad and scared, I feel like my life is over and I am worried about my family how will I leave them .

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@my44

I'm curious as to why your nephrologist pushes salt and protein. What's her reasoning since, like you say, it goes against conventional recommendations? I currently try to limit both.

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@my44 the salt is for low blood pressure, which could slow filtration in the kidneys. The protein I believe is for muscles, since muscle loss can affect eGFR. But I am going to ask to make certain.

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@windyshores

@my44 the salt is for low blood pressure, which could slow filtration in the kidneys. The protein I believe is for muscles, since muscle loss can affect eGFR. But I am going to ask to make certain.

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Thanks, @windyshores. let me know what you find out. Meanwhile, the explanations you listed so far sound feasible to me. I don't have a problem with low blood pressure so I would continue limiting salt. But I do worry about muscle loss because I don't think I consume enough protein, as I've been on a vegetarian diet. I have consulted with a dietician, but I haven't been able to incorporate them...things like soy and tofu. She also mentioned Greek yogurt which I used to eat years ago. I went out and bought some but never ate it. Not sure why. Right now, my main source of protein seems to be nuts, and to a lesser extent cheese. But I have to limit how much I consume of both of those. Any suggestions?

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@my44

Thanks, @windyshores. let me know what you find out. Meanwhile, the explanations you listed so far sound feasible to me. I don't have a problem with low blood pressure so I would continue limiting salt. But I do worry about muscle loss because I don't think I consume enough protein, as I've been on a vegetarian diet. I have consulted with a dietician, but I haven't been able to incorporate them...things like soy and tofu. She also mentioned Greek yogurt which I used to eat years ago. I went out and bought some but never ate it. Not sure why. Right now, my main source of protein seems to be nuts, and to a lesser extent cheese. But I have to limit how much I consume of both of those. Any suggestions?

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I believe most people with CKD avoid salt and protein so you should talk about this with your doctor! I will let folks know the reason I am told to "push protein" because honestly I was only guessing.

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@windyshores

I believe most people with CKD avoid salt and protein so you should talk about this with your doctor! I will let folks know the reason I am told to "push protein" because honestly I was only guessing.

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OK, thanks. I'll be very interested in hearing what you find out.

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@my44 I recently read a Member Spotlight interview on you by @rosemarya. I was inspired by your kidney transplant story. You said that of all your health issues your kidney health was a top priority (not a direct quote). I understand this. I had a pancreas transplant going on 20 years ago for the purpose of saving my kidneys. When you have been blessed to receive a transplant everything else must focus on protecting and preserving that organ. That includes immune suppression & other medications, dietary considerations (protein, salt, vitamins, minerals, supplements, hydration, masking & hand washing ….. plus many other factors. Congratulations on your transplant.

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@cehunt57

@my44 I recently read a Member Spotlight interview on you by @rosemarya. I was inspired by your kidney transplant story. You said that of all your health issues your kidney health was a top priority (not a direct quote). I understand this. I had a pancreas transplant going on 20 years ago for the purpose of saving my kidneys. When you have been blessed to receive a transplant everything else must focus on protecting and preserving that organ. That includes immune suppression & other medications, dietary considerations (protein, salt, vitamins, minerals, supplements, hydration, masking & hand washing ….. plus many other factors. Congratulations on your transplant.

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Hi, @cehunt57

Thank you for reading the interview and responding with such kind comments. I am just over one year post kidney transplant and recognize how much my life is influenced by it, especially concerning all of the things you listed. I do my best to follow the proper regimen to help keep my new kidney healthy and happy. And I do my best to ensure that "non-kidney transplant" doctors do the same. I do that by reminding them of those things that are harmful to my kidney when they suggest meds or treatments that I feel are not kidney friendly.

Congratulations on almost 20 years post pancreas transplant. The journey isn't easy, but it's certainly worth it! 😊

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@flow

I’m so sorry you are feeling this way. I felt the same panic when diagnosed last year at stage My Dr wasn’t concerned at all… told me “ well it’s not like it’s stage 3 cancer!” Stage 3 as it turns out is the first stage they will even mention it to you. That’s the first stage that shows up as “ out of range” on blood tests. The tests can be greatly influenced by many things such as hydration so follow testing trends over time not individual tests for the best picture of what’s happening. What finally calmed my fears was doing hours of research about CKD, online. While it’s true kidneys don’t repair themselves, you can greatly slow the progress of CKD with proper diet and lifestyle and addressing any possible underlying contributing conditions such as high blood pressure etc. The American Kidney Foundation is a great source of information. Certified nutrtionists are a great resource as well. I haven’t found a general MD who has any in depth knowledge of the disease and nephrologists won’t see me at stage 3 as it’s considered mild and they are swamped with folks at later stages. CKD is reaching epidemic proportions in our society. I believe not mentioning it until stage 3 is one reason! Arm yourself with information and reach out as you’ve done. Try to breathe…. Peace

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What foods do you stay away from?

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@maryland9

What foods do you stay away from?

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@marylan9 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect! As you wander through the different threads here in the Kidney and Bladder Support Group you will see there are different diet discussions already ongoing:
- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/3rd-stage-kidney-disease/
- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/renal-nutritionist/

The National Kidney Foundation has information for diets to follow: https://www.kidney.org/nutrition

Basically, what you want to do is limit salt, calcium, phosphorous, potassium, red meat, and watch protein intake and hydration. Avoid NSAIDS, manage stress, get moderate exercise. And if you are dealing with either of the two acknowledged main causes of Chronic Kidney Disease - high blood pressure and diabetes - you want to be getting those under control.

What stage are you? Do you have any contributing factors to your kidney disease?
Ginger

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@gingerw

@marylan9 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect! As you wander through the different threads here in the Kidney and Bladder Support Group you will see there are different diet discussions already ongoing:
- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/3rd-stage-kidney-disease/
- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/renal-nutritionist/

The National Kidney Foundation has information for diets to follow: https://www.kidney.org/nutrition

Basically, what you want to do is limit salt, calcium, phosphorous, potassium, red meat, and watch protein intake and hydration. Avoid NSAIDS, manage stress, get moderate exercise. And if you are dealing with either of the two acknowledged main causes of Chronic Kidney Disease - high blood pressure and diabetes - you want to be getting those under control.

What stage are you? Do you have any contributing factors to your kidney disease?
Ginger

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Very beginning staged

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@gingerw

@marylan9 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect! As you wander through the different threads here in the Kidney and Bladder Support Group you will see there are different diet discussions already ongoing:
- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/3rd-stage-kidney-disease/
- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/renal-nutritionist/

The National Kidney Foundation has information for diets to follow: https://www.kidney.org/nutrition

Basically, what you want to do is limit salt, calcium, phosphorous, potassium, red meat, and watch protein intake and hydration. Avoid NSAIDS, manage stress, get moderate exercise. And if you are dealing with either of the two acknowledged main causes of Chronic Kidney Disease - high blood pressure and diabetes - you want to be getting those under control.

What stage are you? Do you have any contributing factors to your kidney disease?
Ginger

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Beginning stage

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