See Peter? You DO get what you pay for!!🤣. Sorry, couldn’t resist - that was a big fat pitch right down the middle….
BTW, how is it going on the bladder front anyway? Weren’t you referred to a specialist for an artificial sphincter?

My pelvic floor therapist managed to get a “rise” out of me regularly, it was awkward but she says she was used to it pre-op or if the guy was capable post-op.

So I get the dignity part.