Thank you. Given that I know I have a higher level of emotional intelligence than my sister's family combined, I have few expectations. It's really too bad that the word 'grateful' does not enter her mind. But I do realize that when some are as depressed as my sister is, nothing can be done to help her 'reframe' her thoughts. I do not judge anyone, but she sure enjoys judging me, and this is getting old.....I remain hopeful that APS is successful, and I can sleep at night 'knowing I did the right thing,' and maybe at some point in the future she will be able to thank me, altho I do not expect even that.