Hello all - I bet Garden-Club ladies can tell the photo I asked @johnbishop to use was taken on a garden tour because I am wearing my fancy straw hat !

I must give credit where it is due . I hope it is OK to share this link to the Boston Globe - here is an article about Christie Dustman's garden. https://www.bostonglobe.com/magazine/2017/03/31/west-roxbury-garden-shows-off-beauty-trees/c3ZjOhxlvoN06QMLpN4V0J/story.html
She is also a contributor to Fine Gardening.
Thanks to all for kind comments !!