We just aren't fans of using toys.
At this time, yes, it is more me than my husband feeling lost without sex. He said sometimes he does want it, but it's more a fleeting thought and doesn't turn into anything. And on the rare occasion that it does, he gets so exhausted from the effort that it's really not worth it, he wont be able ti do anything else for a long time. The past few days we have just been sitting on the
couch and snuggling, and that kind of helps anyway.