How do you cope with Mixed Connective Tissue Disease (MCTD)?

Posted by Cindi A @cindia1, Feb 5, 2013

Would someone else please join this discussion and let me know how you cope with Mixed Connective Tissue Disease? How can you explain it to your family and friends when they just do not understand? How can I explain it to my doctors? Myself?

I am always tired. Extremely tired. Weak. Do not feel well.....ever. Then at various times, I have problems or flares with several different issues. I always seem to struggle with the neuropathy in my feet and or the raynauds or just swelling and pain. The GI problems are endless. Though they have talked about someday I may have to have a feeding tube, I have always fought that. But with this dismotility and Barretts, some days I actually think just do it and get it over with. I am tired of the pain and wondering what to eat, what I CAN eat.

My skin hurts. My joints hurt. And I feel like I am losing my mind some days. I hate when I feel all whiny and negative. That is not me but darn it all, I hate these illnesses.

The doctors all say to join a support group. Where and which one? Lupus? Scleroderma? Raynauds? Sjogrens? I am at a loss so turned to this site.

Any advice would be helpful. Or just knowing there is someone else out there going through the same thing and understands!

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Autoimmune Diseases Support Group.

Hello. I am nearing an official diagnosis. I’ve tested positive for MCTD twice and have a laundry list of symptoms spanning the last 30 years and they are increasing in frequency and intensity. I received my brain MRI results last week with some troubling news. I have Mesial Lobe Sclerosis (but I don’t have high BP, high cholesterol or diabetes and I don’t have epilepsy) and Microvasular Ischemia. Do any of you have those impacts in your brain? If so, how are you being treated to slow the effects down?

I also have two parotid gland tumors. Has anyone dealt with that? Thank you so much for your input. I appreciate it.

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@bearylynn

Sounds alot like what I struggle with. Prior to quitting work (6 yrs ago after YEARS of horrendous pain), I was an engineer, so it's my nature to keep looking for solutions. Some of them that I use daily are:

DIET:
NO DAIRY - causes severe joint/tendon pain
NO RAW FRUITS/VEGGIES (except maybe avacado) - gi problems
NO EGGS - cause severe colon gas/acid/spasm - suffer for days w/ little egg!
NO (VERY LOW) FIBER - Gas causes colon to spasm shut.
GLUTEN FREE - gives gi system a break when completely off for months at a time.
Along w/ gluten free, limit sweeteners to honey (cooked best for me), stevia, saccharine.
Look into book: "Breaking the Vicious Cycle" (SCD diet)
SLUSHIES - a.m. & p.m. - fresh grapefruit juice (or cranberry juice cocktail) - w/ ice, coconut (natural, unsweetened), acerola vitamin c powder, l-glutamine powder, cocoa, stevia , natural calm (already liquified), (sometimes pecans, almonds...). I LOVE this concoction. (I got some "smoothie maker bottles" to go on my standard osterizer).
COCONUT OIL and BUTTER seem to help stimulate digestion.
BAKED APPLES - w/ honey, cinnamon and a little water -- eat w/ pecans heated in a little butter.

SUPPLEMENTS:
NATURAL CALM (magnesium citrate powder) - best thing for motility I've used.
2-3 tablespoons a day (mostly at dinner)
SENNA - approx 35 mg every other day w/ dinner (yes - that's alot).
NO CALCIUM (for me - kidney stone/crystal issues)

MEDS:
DITROPAN XL (not generic) - reduces colon/bladder/ureter spasms, helping gas & stool to pass.
Other meds also - but not sure if they apply directly to the connective tissue problems.

LIFESTYLE:
YOGA - improved nutritional absorption - gained weight
ELECTRIC BLANKET - a.m. and p.m. - wrap around legs for 1-2 hours (WONDERFUL)
PHYSICAL THERAPY - finally found one who really gets the mechanics of things -- I use him as necessary.
CHIROPRACTOR - found a wonderful guy associated with a comprehensive "Spine Care" program. He's the only one I've ever used who did anything worthwhile -- I use him as necessary, but if I keep doing the right exercises, don't need him.

I've found various exercises that help - between reading books and p.t. help.
Inversion Table: I use it to allow gravity to move my intestines upward -- relieving the pressure down low seems to help w/ constipation.

DOCTORS:
GI - 8th gi doc I tried is great. She has independent practice and understands functionality better than most -- but, hard to find someone like this. Hard for these docs to stay independent of the big companies -- she's closing shop this summer.
HAND SURGEON - Also found a great one - after problems w/ first hand surgery. He's fixed me up, and just finished my latest hand surgery. He, also, is leaving the big hospital company, and I will no longer be able to use him -- hard to find the ones who still want to - and are allowed to - do things how they know are best.
PHYSIATRIST / PAIN DR.. - Found a good one through a disability attorney. Extremely valuable in referring me to helpful specialists.
PSYCHIATRIST - ask around for someone others really like. I take depression meds -- spent too many days working too hard just to attempt to 'climb out of the hole' over and over.
PSYCHOTHERAPIST- finally found a good one. Was most helpful in helping ME to understand that I was not just lazy and whiney!

Do not misunderstand -- pain / constipation / pain / infections / ........... are still a daily struggle, but without constantly working on above issues, I would be on the floor all day w/ pain at 9-10.

Support groups could be great - but only if folks are discussing solutions rather than problems. There are lots of great ideas, and we only figure out if they work for us through trial and error -- and, yes, it's a full-time job.

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Were you diagnosed with mctd then ?

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@bearylynn

Sounds alot like what I struggle with. Prior to quitting work (6 yrs ago after YEARS of horrendous pain), I was an engineer, so it's my nature to keep looking for solutions. Some of them that I use daily are:

DIET:
NO DAIRY - causes severe joint/tendon pain
NO RAW FRUITS/VEGGIES (except maybe avacado) - gi problems
NO EGGS - cause severe colon gas/acid/spasm - suffer for days w/ little egg!
NO (VERY LOW) FIBER - Gas causes colon to spasm shut.
GLUTEN FREE - gives gi system a break when completely off for months at a time.
Along w/ gluten free, limit sweeteners to honey (cooked best for me), stevia, saccharine.
Look into book: "Breaking the Vicious Cycle" (SCD diet)
SLUSHIES - a.m. & p.m. - fresh grapefruit juice (or cranberry juice cocktail) - w/ ice, coconut (natural, unsweetened), acerola vitamin c powder, l-glutamine powder, cocoa, stevia , natural calm (already liquified), (sometimes pecans, almonds...). I LOVE this concoction. (I got some "smoothie maker bottles" to go on my standard osterizer).
COCONUT OIL and BUTTER seem to help stimulate digestion.
BAKED APPLES - w/ honey, cinnamon and a little water -- eat w/ pecans heated in a little butter.

SUPPLEMENTS:
NATURAL CALM (magnesium citrate powder) - best thing for motility I've used.
2-3 tablespoons a day (mostly at dinner)
SENNA - approx 35 mg every other day w/ dinner (yes - that's alot).
NO CALCIUM (for me - kidney stone/crystal issues)

MEDS:
DITROPAN XL (not generic) - reduces colon/bladder/ureter spasms, helping gas & stool to pass.
Other meds also - but not sure if they apply directly to the connective tissue problems.

LIFESTYLE:
YOGA - improved nutritional absorption - gained weight
ELECTRIC BLANKET - a.m. and p.m. - wrap around legs for 1-2 hours (WONDERFUL)
PHYSICAL THERAPY - finally found one who really gets the mechanics of things -- I use him as necessary.
CHIROPRACTOR - found a wonderful guy associated with a comprehensive "Spine Care" program. He's the only one I've ever used who did anything worthwhile -- I use him as necessary, but if I keep doing the right exercises, don't need him.

I've found various exercises that help - between reading books and p.t. help.
Inversion Table: I use it to allow gravity to move my intestines upward -- relieving the pressure down low seems to help w/ constipation.

DOCTORS:
GI - 8th gi doc I tried is great. She has independent practice and understands functionality better than most -- but, hard to find someone like this. Hard for these docs to stay independent of the big companies -- she's closing shop this summer.
HAND SURGEON - Also found a great one - after problems w/ first hand surgery. He's fixed me up, and just finished my latest hand surgery. He, also, is leaving the big hospital company, and I will no longer be able to use him -- hard to find the ones who still want to - and are allowed to - do things how they know are best.
PHYSIATRIST / PAIN DR.. - Found a good one through a disability attorney. Extremely valuable in referring me to helpful specialists.
PSYCHIATRIST - ask around for someone others really like. I take depression meds -- spent too many days working too hard just to attempt to 'climb out of the hole' over and over.
PSYCHOTHERAPIST- finally found a good one. Was most helpful in helping ME to understand that I was not just lazy and whiney!

Do not misunderstand -- pain / constipation / pain / infections / ........... are still a daily struggle, but without constantly working on above issues, I would be on the floor all day w/ pain at 9-10.

Support groups could be great - but only if folks are discussing solutions rather than problems. There are lots of great ideas, and we only figure out if they work for us through trial and error -- and, yes, it's a full-time job.

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How old were you when you were diagnosed and how old were you when you quit working ? I’m 55 and was just diagnosed with mctd in Sept and thinking I need to file for short term disability to start with to figure out how to heal and control this as I have a lot of brain fog. May need to apply then for longer term disability ins if things don’t improve as my brain just doesn’t work the same and not able to keep up with the workload and expectations anymore .. I think I’ve had this for years but didn’t know what it was and thought it was just depression and fatigue before

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@ohiomom

Hello. I am nearing an official diagnosis. I’ve tested positive for MCTD twice and have a laundry list of symptoms spanning the last 30 years and they are increasing in frequency and intensity. I received my brain MRI results last week with some troubling news. I have Mesial Lobe Sclerosis (but I don’t have high BP, high cholesterol or diabetes and I don’t have epilepsy) and Microvasular Ischemia. Do any of you have those impacts in your brain? If so, how are you being treated to slow the effects down?

I also have two parotid gland tumors. Has anyone dealt with that? Thank you so much for your input. I appreciate it.

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How did you get them to give you an MRI? I’ve been asking for one but they haven’t yet felt the need to do one. I was diagnosed with mctd in Sept but have been having brain fog and fatigue for years now and Ive been on hormone replacement therapy so I don’t think it’s related to perimenopause,

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@believe1

I appreciate your response. I can't deny that I believe i have a very healthy dose unfortunately... same as my gma and dad. Since my first presentation like 10 months ago I personally can not deny that I have: lupus, scleroderma, RA, myositis...... and i know Sjogrrns csn have overlapping symptoms ... my gma had it and they were my first symptoms so I may as well include that as well... I have a medical background that has helped me greatly in trying to tease this all apart that I am grateful for. It sounds very uncommon to break through a flare without meds. It has been alot of work and adjusting... everything from eating a high dose of cocoa and high polyphenol olive oil to the resolute use of eating chicken to avoid face and nose sores from breaking through.... along with supplements, a very good diet, exercise and sleep. I have a terrible sensitivity to lectins so struggle getting grains that I believe assist in energy production. I have tried soaking and pressure cooking. Im still working so I'm dealing but feel underaccomplished. Sorry - talking your ear off

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I was diagnosed with mctd in Sept and struggling to keep up with my job responsibilities rn and also have 4 direct reports. Just filed for fmla and trying to see if I can get that approved. I wish I could work PT. But have brain fog and fatigue daily. Some days more than others I’m smart but it takes monumental effort to do anything

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@believe1

I appreciate your response. I can't deny that I believe i have a very healthy dose unfortunately... same as my gma and dad. Since my first presentation like 10 months ago I personally can not deny that I have: lupus, scleroderma, RA, myositis...... and i know Sjogrrns csn have overlapping symptoms ... my gma had it and they were my first symptoms so I may as well include that as well... I have a medical background that has helped me greatly in trying to tease this all apart that I am grateful for. It sounds very uncommon to break through a flare without meds. It has been alot of work and adjusting... everything from eating a high dose of cocoa and high polyphenol olive oil to the resolute use of eating chicken to avoid face and nose sores from breaking through.... along with supplements, a very good diet, exercise and sleep. I have a terrible sensitivity to lectins so struggle getting grains that I believe assist in energy production. I have tried soaking and pressure cooking. Im still working so I'm dealing but feel underaccomplished. Sorry - talking your ear off

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Jesus…all you have to do . You’re amazing.

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@syltejr

How did you get them to give you an MRI? I’ve been asking for one but they haven’t yet felt the need to do one. I was diagnosed with mctd in Sept but have been having brain fog and fatigue for years now and Ive been on hormone replacement therapy so I don’t think it’s related to perimenopause,

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I have been having chronic migraines for years and the migraine medicine doesn’t help. Then in May of this year, I started having strange body sensations….what you would expect from an MS diagnosis. It’s a strange tingling followed by a tightening and pulling in that area. I’ve also had muscle fasciculations for almost 4 years that the neurologist originally thought were “benign”. also have Raynaud’s and a whole bunch of other things. All of this together added up to the need for a brain MRI.

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@syltejr

How did you get them to give you an MRI? I’ve been asking for one but they haven’t yet felt the need to do one. I was diagnosed with mctd in Sept but have been having brain fog and fatigue for years now and Ive been on hormone replacement therapy so I don’t think it’s related to perimenopause,

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@syltejr if you are living in Canada, it is difficult to get an MRI because you always need a doctor’s - often a specialist’s - referral and even then it is difficult to get one because our government health plan won’t pay for one unless it is ordered as a last resort. I have been asking doctors for one for years without success. The most they will do is a CT scan but only if an Ultrasound proves inconclusive.

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@rashida

@syltejr if you are living in Canada, it is difficult to get an MRI because you always need a doctor’s - often a specialist’s - referral and even then it is difficult to get one because our government health plan won’t pay for one unless it is ordered as a last resort. I have been asking doctors for one for years without success. The most they will do is a CT scan but only if an Ultrasound proves inconclusive.

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I am in the U.S.

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I have the same issues, sick and throwing up. I have back pain and severe feet issues. They ruled out lupus, raynauds, blue toe I can’t wear socks or shoes. I have blisters around my toe nails and between my toes. The blisters are so big and deep, when they pop it’s under the skin. I have been to rheumatology, dermatology, cardiology, vascular, neurologist, endocrinology, orthopedic. I also see my primary doctor every six months. I have had stomach issues since 1980. I was diagnosed with thyroid in 2000 and type 2 diabetes in 2008 and connective tissue on my feet 2019 and my social life is 0 and I literally only leave the house for a dr. Appointment.

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