Hi Sue,
I always enjoy your responses, and have a question/suggestion. Can you and your friend chat on zoom? I talk to my sister that way once a week, another friend frequently, and old friends from time to time. It is a really fun way to see the other person. I also do some writing/drawing that way with people--we both get on, hang out, then do some creative work, share. It lessens the distance. Anyway, happy new year!